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Re: hello 14 Jun 2016 11:49 #290043

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MyFoot, what you wrote in the chat almost got lost, so here it is

hi can some one help me im a bachuer away from home and im struggling tremendously with shmiras eiynayim and internet addiction i feel like im finished with working and trying its just not going with all these well mechanchim and rebbes they just dont get it if any one feels that he can help me please reply as soon as possible as i feel im passing out
(2:06PM 7th Jun)


I'd like to hear more what you're saying about having spoken to others. Was no one able to advise you?

re markz post well ive been out of my own accord and ive been sent to loads of people and well meaning ones never mind they charged a small fortune but it never helped long term i dont think ive met a bachur who can tell me hes come clean for a long time through 10 to 12 sessions by a mechanech or therapist they just want u to pull it through till ur married and then somehow the problems go away never mind that they think marriage is a hospital but any way im just venting myself out its just that im exsasperated already and i want to be good
(2:10PM 8th Jun)

 

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Re: hello 14 Jun 2016 16:18 #290050

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my foot wrote on 14 Jun 2016 10:37:
sorry skeptical but thats pretty discouraging to see that you r here already  4 years and u still have the same name

He isn't skeptical anymore, that's his point. He didn't stick it it out, he realized that he actually can stop and took steps to do so. I think the reason he didn't change his name was because it would cause confusion.

Right skeps?

Re: hello 17 Jun 2016 01:04 #290211

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Sorry, I've been really busy with work, and haven't had time to come on here.

I don't believe in changing names on here. It's hard enough for people to keep track of who is who, plus, I think it's helpful to others to be able to see a person's journey from skeptical to being healthy, boruch Hashem. 

One thing to think about: when I first joined GYE, I would never have thought that the word Moderator would appear under my name.

Re: hello 17 Jun 2016 01:39 #290214

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Good to see another bochur on here. 

I know you're out there.

I joined GYE the week before Pesach, during bein hazmanim, which is generally a disaster for me because of all the free time I have, which I waste on the computer. But thanks to everyone here, I've been clean from porn ever since. Not to say that I've been flying high; I've had some rough days, especially since the zman started.

For me, just reading the forums and taking part in the conversations has helped me to gain a better attitude about my struggle. The most important thing for me is the ability to "speak" my mind, express my feelings, and get support and good advice from everyone here.

I hope you stick around, and Hashem will help you to get yourself to the taharah you seek.
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