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Re: My Story - Thank Gd 21 Dec 2017 04:25 #324048

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I decided to change from big bouncy schoolbus type truck, but not sure I'm gonna stay with this "le-go and let Gd" one

It's called "gye identity crisis" = Not sure which mask to hide behind ;-)

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Re: My Story - Thank Gd 21 Dec 2017 04:28 #324051

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Hakolhevel wrote on 21 Dec 2017 04:14:
Markz, What's with the new truck?

It appealed to his vanity. 
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...

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Re: My Story - Thank Gd 21 Dec 2017 11:53 #324069

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Markz wrote on 21 Dec 2017 04:25:
I decided to change from big bouncy schoolbus type truck, but not sure I'm gonna stay with this "le-go and let Gd" one

It's called "gye identity crisis" = Not sure which mask to hide behind ;-)

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Anything is better than something bouncing up and down while I'm trying to read what you wrote. :-)

Re: My Story - Thank Gd 21 Dec 2017 15:09 #324075

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The problem with this mask is that you are no longer hidden, we can see your face.

Next time I walk into Shul feeling curious and I see the man with the yellow hat I will know I have found MARKZ
My Thread:The Road To Being Honest With Myself (and others:)

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Re: I'm an Aspie - Neurotypicals are invited too 27 Dec 2017 17:19 #324268

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markz wrote on 25 Nov 2015 11:48:

goodchange613 wrote:
3)I really worked on using "I Love you" much more often from texts or calls during the day and then progressing to saying it to her every time i leave the house...

markz wrote:


3) "I really worked on using "I Love you" much more often from texts or calls during the day".
This is something I did NOT do, primarily during nidda times, excusing it as a religious thing not to be too sexual during that period - how crazy can us lusters get!!

markz ,dont be so hard on yourself,the halacha is (at least MY Rabbi told  me)   that during nidda times one should not say to ones wife i love you ,and it has nothing with you being a crazy luster. im enjoying your post ,thank you.

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  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

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Re: My Story - Thank Gd 27 Dec 2017 17:35 #324270

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cordnoy wrote on 09 Mar 2017 20:06:
I'm very proud of myself.

I didn't Google Narudo or Hokedage yet.

Besides, they don't seem my type.

im very proud of myself, i dont have google

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  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Re: My Story - Thank Gd 27 Dec 2017 17:43 #324271

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I've been under the weather, sorry took long to respond to this "I love you wife" question that you asked on the PM

TZ mentioned on some other old post that nowadays it has a different connotation and may not come under "דרך חיבה"

I'd be interested to see what current poskim say

As an aside - until we break free of lust, many mundane things will equal more sex, and "I love you" is 1 example
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Re: My Story - Thank Gd 27 Dec 2017 18:05 #324272

I got married 4 years ago
My rebbiem taught me to say I love you always
my thread:guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh">I will make it b"h


guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: My Story - Thank Gd 27 Dec 2017 18:12 #324274

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im sorry i lost my patience and posted  ,guess its due to my impulsive nature,my Rabbi  told me this over 20 years ago so could be things changed,my kids tell me when you say yanky is a sick guy , it means hes a great guy!  a refuah sheleima for your under the wheatherness, not for you being sick/great.hatzlacha!

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  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Re: My Story - Thank Gd 27 Dec 2017 19:14 #324279

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AinShumYeeush wrote:
The Ohr HaChaim [(אור החיים פרשת פנחס (כה, טז] says that a person who tasted the pleasure of lust can't be forgiven while he still desires it. He needs to first hate the women who caused him to sin and be disgusted from (and destroy) any good associated with them, only then will he gain a new sober nature and be forgiven.  https://www.sefaria.org/Numbers.25.17/he/Tanach_with_Ta'amei_Hamikra?lang=bi&p2=Or_HaChaim_on_Numbers.25.17&lang2=bi

"GrowStrong" post=321358 date=1508501217 catid=19I guess that makes sense if the women caused the person to sin.
But for lustaholics all of the problem is in our heads
and so we bless them

why wasnt the Ohr Hachaim Hakodesh talking about lustaholics ,we werent invented yet?

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  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

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Re: My Story - Thank Gd 27 Dec 2017 19:26 #324280

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 27 Dec 2017 18:05:
I got married 4 years ago
My rebbiem taught me to say I love you always

my rebi taught me to say plain i love you

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  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Re: My Story - Thank Gd 27 Dec 2017 19:36 #324281

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I think he meant to say it always as in all times including nidda...
Btw my Rebbe didn't teach me anything about what I should say. You can only take a horse to the water, you can't make him drink...
p.s. Did your Rebbe teach you to say thank you after dinner?
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Re: My Story - Thank Gd 27 Dec 2017 19:43 #324282

ieeyc wrote on 27 Dec 2017 19:26:

MayanHamisgaber wrote on 27 Dec 2017 18:05:
I got married 4 years ago
My rebbiem taught me to say I love you always

my rebi taught me to say plain i love you

LK is correct that I meant to always say it 

But I do not understand why horses have anything to do with this
my thread:guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/300426-I-will-make-it-bh">I will make it b"h


guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: My Story - Thank Gd 27 Dec 2017 19:44 #324283

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Yup! and  "it was delicious" but a good rooaARRR!!  will also do

לב  טהור   ברא   לי   אלקים , ורוח  נכון    חדש  בקרבי

  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

Last Edit: 27 Dec 2017 20:07 by ieeyc.

Re: My Story - Thank Gd 27 Dec 2017 19:54 #324284

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ieeyc wrote on 27 Dec 2017 19:44:
Yup! and  "it was delicious" but a good rooaARRR!!  will also do ,also after breakfast and lunch

לב  טהור   ברא   לי   אלקים , ורוח  נכון    חדש  בקרבי

  to all my friends who heeded my request  to be so generous and give me a negative karma  for the sake of me acquiring       
                                                . humility ,i humbly  thank you                                                                                                 

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