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Re: introduction trying2bgr8 02 Jun 2015 17:47 #255855

trying2bgr8 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 19 Karma: 1	Was not using any tools. It was just going well without anything.....till now

Re: introduction trying2bgr8 02 Jun 2015 19:12 #255867

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well, maybe then, that's where to start....just sayin'...

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Re: introduction trying2bgr8 02 Jun 2015 20:07 #255869

trying2bgr8 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 19 Karma: 1	What do you suggest?

Re: introduction trying2bgr8 02 Jun 2015 20:23 #255871

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I don't really know you, and I didnt refresh myself with your thread.
I did notice that you "hoped" to be better, and that did work for a while.
Some here do the Shaarei Teshuvah approach.
Some call in to phone conferences, therapists, SA groups, whitebook, etc.
others get in contact with members and talk it out.
Some take a sponsor or mentor.

The key is to do somethin' positive.

b'hatzlachah

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Re: introduction trying2bgr8 02 Jun 2015 21:21 #255890

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Hi Trying,
I think you are great. 285 days Wow!!
Were all 285 days going smooth and then suddenly you just fell or were you feeling the nagging for some time before you fell? Did you slip a few times before you fell? Did anything change in your life? Did you feel it coming?
I don't mean to be nosy but I am feeling pretty good these days and when I hear of a fall at 285, it scares me to death.
I insist on speaking with at least one person everyday and I daven during every spare moment to HKB"H that he protect me from lust.
But I can see that it can come back at any time. Please tell me what the early warning sifgns are.

Re: introduction trying2bgr8 02 Jun 2015 22:46 #255904

stillgoing OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1700 Karma: 157	Just something that I believe is very important to point out. 285-1fall does NOT = 0! No way! Not in this world and not in the next! Maybe think of it like a baseball game. You're at the top of the 40th (year/inning) bases loaded. The score is 285 - 0. Clean is winning. Bam! Fall scored one run. Now the score is 285 - 1. Whose winning? you tell me. Keep it up:)
	BIG SHOT! Free Choice?! Yirai's Memories STORY TIME :) Dr. Seuss - You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself in any direction you choose. You're on your own, and you know what you know. And you are the guy who'll decide where to go. FSKOT! (Fell Shmell--Keep on Trucking) (The Rebba R' Bards) 613stillgoing@gmail.com

Re: introduction trying2bgr8 04 Jun 2015 17:59 #256057

trying2bgr8 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 19 Karma: 1	I did slip a few times during the 285 days It was nagging for a while and then i just fell Feels terrible

Re: introduction trying2bgr8 04 Jun 2015 18:00 #256058

trying2bgr8 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 19 Karma: 1	Thank you Still Going for the chizuk

Re: introduction trying2bgr8 04 Jun 2015 19:54 #256067

pischoshelmachat OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 492 Karma: 42	Were you doing anything special to get to 285 that you slacked off or did it come out of nowhere?

Re: introduction trying2bgr8 04 Jun 2015 20:02 #256069

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trying2bgr8 wrote:

I did slip a few times during the 285 days
It was nagging for a while and then i just fell
Feels terrible

As a bachur, I once counted 205 days. I was doing well. Then pretty much out of the blue, I don't even remember what happened, but I must have seen or fantasized about something and down I went. I was very upset. It took a lot of years and a lot of struggling, and my wife finding out, and finding GYE..., but B"H, I'm almost 6 years sober. NEVER EVER GIVE UP!!!

I know how you feel.

Re: introduction trying2bgr8 05 Jun 2015 15:25 #256172

trying2bgr8 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 19 Karma: 1	pischoshelmachat wrote: Were you doing anything special to get to 285 that you slacked off or did it come out of nowhere? It basically just came out of nowhere

Re: introduction trying2bgr8 05 Jun 2015 15:31 #256175

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I like to say that it came from within us....now where in us? that is a different question.

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