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Re: This time will be better 11 Apr 2022 17:04 #379858

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Trouble wrote on 11 Apr 2022 14:38:

joetyh wrote on 11 Apr 2022 13:59:

1 day clean behind me B”H

and one more thought about this; if the one day clean is "behind you" - it will remain that way - behind you; if, however, that one day was part of a program/plan/method - it can then be in front of you.

similar to a sports streak - if a batter happened to get hits in 56 games in a row, that has no bearing whatsoever on game 57 unless he learned something from those games (which he didn't - it's simply a luck of the statistics for a good hitter) - yes, he probably is an excellent hitter and i'm sure his batting average is pretty good as well, but if his batting average during those 56 games was .362, and someone else's batting average was .385, the latter is a better hitter.

don't get me wrong; i'm not here bashing the 90-day program like others; it is a good tool when used properly - i am simply asking: how are you using it? thanks man

Trouble, I’ve found ur posts recently very insightful. Thank you man! Keep it up!

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Re: This time will be better 11 Apr 2022 17:31 #379861

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Shtarkandemotional wrote on 11 Apr 2022 17:04:

Trouble wrote on 11 Apr 2022 14:38:

joetyh wrote on 11 Apr 2022 13:59:

1 day clean behind me B”H

Trouble, I’ve found ur posts recently very insightful. Thank you man! Keep it up!

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Re: This time will be better 12 Apr 2022 08:14 #379897

joetyh Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 182 Karma: 20	Ouch I tripped on the way back up. Did the same stupid thing again. I will have a meeting with myself tomorrow to decide what to do now
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Re: This time will be better 12 Apr 2022 13:32 #379903

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joetyh wrote on 12 Apr 2022 08:14:

Ouch I tripped on the way back up. Did the same stupid thing again.
I will have a meeting with myself tomorrow to decide what to do now

Tomorrow? To decide what to do today?
Someone had a quote in their signature: Today! Dammit! Today!

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Re: This time will be better 12 Apr 2022 19:42 #379925

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cordnoy wrote on 12 Apr 2022 13:32:

joetyh wrote on 12 Apr 2022 08:14:

Ouch I tripped on the way back up. Did the same stupid thing again.
I will have a meeting with myself tomorrow to decide what to do now

Tomorrow? To decide what to do today?
Someone had a quote in their signature: Today! Dammit! Today!

What I meant by tomorrow was that I didn’t have brain cells to think last night at 5:30 AM but after I wake up I will work on a plan

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Re: This time will be better 12 Apr 2022 23:46 #379928

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Lol. I figured!

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Re: This time will be better 13 Apr 2022 04:29 #379936

joetyh Current streak: 6 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 182 Karma: 20	Ouch I fell again… someone on WhatsApp that I reached out to during a different fall reached out to me and sent me a nude video…
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Re: This time will be better 13 Apr 2022 09:17 #379941

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Are you able to message that person and ask thwm respectfully not to send those to you anymore?

Re: This time will be better 13 Apr 2022 09:53 #379942

shmuel Current streak: 578 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 342 Karma: 14	Vehkam wrote on 13 Apr 2022 09:17: Are you able to message that person and ask thwm respectfully not to send those to you anymore? I wouldn't engage. I would block and delete

Re: This time will be better 13 Apr 2022 12:01 #379944

5Uu80*cdwB#^ Current streak: 1166 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 179	Huh? Who were you reaching out to? This is very disturbing.
	If you are wondering why you can't stop masturbating even though you're guarding your eyes, it's because you're fantasizing.

Re: This time will be better 13 Apr 2022 12:19 #379946

shmuel Current streak: 578 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 342 Karma: 14	*5Uu80cdwB#^ wrote on 13 Apr 2022 12:01:** Huh? Who were you reaching out to? This is very disturbing. His bubby

Re: This time will be better 13 Apr 2022 12:53 #379947

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Shmuel wrote on 13 Apr 2022 09:53:

Vehkam wrote on 13 Apr 2022 09:17:

Are you able to message that person and ask thwm respectfully not to send those to you anymore?

I wouldn't engage. I would block and delete

Of course. I meant if it’s a friend.

Re: This time will be better 13 Apr 2022 15:10 #379956

shmuel Current streak: 578 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 342 Karma: 14	Vehkam wrote on 13 Apr 2022 12:53: Shmuel wrote on 13 Apr 2022 09:53: Vehkam wrote on 13 Apr 2022 09:17: Are you able to message that person and ask thwm respectfully not to send those to you anymore? I wouldn't engage. I would block and delete Of course. I meant if it’s a friend. Even so

Re: This time will be better 14 Apr 2022 04:30 #379975

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	If you are in the same situation as me, a bachur who’s fighting every day to break free, feel free to reach out to me at hopeful1245@gmail.com. I can use the chizuk from other bachrim and im sure you can use the chizuk as well. We are all in this together! My thread on the forum