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Dating-disclosure 17 Apr 2020 19:27 #348452

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Hi guys, does anyone have some experience with disclosure while dating that they could share (what to say, at what point, how to say it, reactions etc..). It would be greatly appreciated to get some insight into how it's done, because it seems like it is something that is necessary to do. Good Shabbos

Re: Dating-disclosure 17 Apr 2020 20:21 #348453

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"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
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Re: Dating-disclosure 17 Apr 2020 20:27 #348454

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Thank you, I've read that before but that wasn't exactly what I was looking for. My question wasn't if I should or not, I just wanted to hear about other peoples experiences of disclosing to see how it is done and how to deal with the immediate and longer term ramifications.  

Re: Dating-disclosure 19 Apr 2020 02:45 #348463

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I dated someone recently, and my streak went about from the moment I met her to a few days after our last date (I ended it).
Had temptations during, but the thought of her actually get me to stop.

Because of that, I didn't say anything..

Re: Dating-disclosure 19 Apr 2020 15:16 #348483

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Can you explain why you are sure you must disclose?
Also, what exactly are you disclosing? addiction? or just "regular" porn use?

Re: Dating-disclosure 19 Apr 2020 15:49 #348484

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Thanks David for sharing that. 

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Re: Dating-disclosure 17 Dec 2020 20:01 #358968

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So how’s it goin man?
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