HI everyone
I wanna start by saying that i have not watched real porn in quite a few months until .....yesterday the 1st day of bain hazmanim.....i went into boost mobile store plugged in my headphones to one of the iphones and....i feel like ....obviously although it was only 5 minutes but ...i feel like a its now a ticking time bomb 
 

Welcome to the club. Bein hazmanim is hard for all of us,, especially bachurim. We should make some sort of program. I got to go now (I'm learning with another gye member) but I'll come back later, hopefully with an idea. 

So here's my idea. It's just a rough draft but I hope to get some interest and we can work out the details. I thought over what helped me through my clean bein hazmanims and realized the most important thing was structure, and keeping busy.

With that in mind I propose forming a group. Everyone in the group will be mekabel to Learn a certain minimum, not much, say 45 min to an hour, exercise a certain min,maybe 45 walk or half hour exercise thatmakes you sweat. Such as pesach cleaning? And to go to bed at a semi-normal time and wake up before zman tefillah.

Anyone can join though this is probably most effective for bachurim.

Anyone interested?

Questions? Comments? Call 1-800-posthere. That's 1-800-post here

very good idea and i am married should work for except that im bored now till 2 oclock

wowowow only one othere person feels that bain hazmanim is a bigger struggle????????!!!!!!!! only one other person has an idea or time to respond to a lone sick perverted nebachcase who cant get his head put of the sand when hes bored??????!!!!!

Have you visited the JHF section
JHF = JewishHospitalforFallouts

Theres a bunch of gyes there that are in Bain Hazmanim mode always!

You want serious recovery? 
Call PA, hell hellp hell out of you
PA = Private Ambulance services

im all for the idea 

elaalavinu wrote on 18 Apr 2016 15:12:

Hihihihi! I'm all for perverts helping perverts!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  But do we have to call ourselves "nebs" also?????????  Sure we've got our failings, but why not just look them in the face and GOT (Get on TRucking)!?!?!?!?!?!

Anyway, I'm up for idea if y'all want to start a bein hazmanim group where we each commit to learn/exercise/post everyday (no posting on Y"T I think), or something like that.  Though, truth be told, I'm not in Yeshiva now, and it's always bein hazmanim.  

Hatzlacha ela!

That makes four guys. I would say that's enough to start.

Ok then, what should the commitments be? 

Thanks ina!

My thoughts... we all likely have very different situations that are likely to pose struggles and temptations and schedules with family and stuff.  But I'll commit to some structure if everyone jumps on board.  I think a group commitment would be helpful also.  Maybe something like the good night device program for any internet capable devices - Any use of internet after "Time X" needs to be logged on the forum. And posting everyday of any struggles, successes, and/or a Shtik Torah or interesting thought about staying clean.

But let's hear from Aryeh and ela also
 

Sounds Awsome 
Should I go ahead and make a thread with what we have and we can edit it there 

Keep it here please bein hazmanim started for some 3 weeks ago, it's almost over

Markz is right, we might as well keep it here.

I do think we should have a minimum learning and exercise time. They both are really helpful.

What's the minimum you guys are willing to be mekabel?

If exercise is gonna be part of it I would prefer a 30 minute/day minimum, since the plan is to do it every day it might get tricky for me sometimes

Learning I'd say about 2 hours exercising maybe 30 minutes 
Bain ha'azmanim is close to being over but I think one of us should be appointed to revive it every Bain ha'azmanim