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Not sure if I fell...need advice. 12 Feb 2016 11:27 #277616

ineedhelp613 OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 17 Karma: 1	Been on an awesome 22 day streak. Last night, I had a wet dream, but woke up before reaching point of no return. I then, semi-conciously finished off to the end I was definitely awake, but I wasn't awake enough to think about my streak, the consquences, or any of my fences. Do I start again from 0?

Re: Not sure if I fell...need advice. 12 Feb 2016 14:44 #277647

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I think you may be chayav a Korban Oleh V'yored.
Maybe ask a Rabbi first.

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Re: Not sure if I fell...need advice. 13 Feb 2016 23:57 #277697

shlomo24 Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2213 Karma: 134	If you truly woke up at the point of no return then I wouldn't consider it a fall for myself.
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Re: Not sure if I fell...need advice. 14 Feb 2016 00:23 #277698

military613 Current streak: 19 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 68 Karma: 7	Don't worry about the past dude. It most likely was out of your control - but either way, it was in the past. Everything which happens n the past is because Hashems will allowed it to happen so don't get down about it. Hashem just wants you to focus on what you can do NOW and that is all. Don't beat yourself up cos Hashem loves you. Just be happy:)

Re: Not sure if I fell...need advice. 14 Feb 2016 00:51 #277700

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military613 wrote:

Don't worry about the past dude. It most likely was out of your control - but either way, it was in the past. Everything which happens n the past is because Hashems will allowed it to happen so don't get down about it.
Hashem just wants you to focus on what you can do NOW and that is all.
Don't beat yourself up cos Hashem loves you. Just be happy:)

military613 wrote:

29 Dec 2014
Gaurd replied to my email which said that I had fallen with:
"Wow. You are doing super well. Hashem is very proud of you!

After the fact, we must look at the fall as what Hashem wanted to happen. Before the fall, it's all in our hands... Sounds funny, no? But that's what our holy sefarim say we must believe.

So now you must look at the fall as out of your hands completely. All you can deal with is the NOW.

Try and figure out what situation brought you to the fall. Set up better fences so it doesn't happen again. In this way, you will be uplifting the fall and turn it into a zechus!!"

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