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I'm about to FALL!!
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 04 Dec 2019 14:34 #345728

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Beautiful Post! 

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 28 May 2020 23:38 #350555

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I can't believe I just fell.
I feel as if I have no strength. This is following one of the longest streaks in my life.

I feel destroyed, like I let my loving parents down
Last Edit: 31 May 2020 05:04 by NachalNovea.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 31 May 2020 02:01 #350557

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Now is most important to get back up build on failure see how you can improve next time you got this now is not the time to throw in the towel you may have lost the battle but you’re winning the war don’t surrender that would not be smart get back up and win the next battle

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 31 May 2020 04:37 #350566

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NachalNovea wrote on 28 May 2020 23:38:
I can't believe I just fell.
I feel as if I have no strength. This is following one of the longest streaks in my life.

I feel destroyed, like I let my loving patents down 

Mazel tov on your long streak. How are you celebrating it?

I am serious buddy. If lets say you were helping a fellow to stop speaking lashon hara. He used to speak every other day. That equals approx. 180 times a year. He works on it and keeps his mouth shut from gossip for 36 days. Incredible! That is an average of 10 ties a year. Of course being that he is focused, he will iyh get past 36 too.... So buddy, why is this different?! Go celebrate, clean up, and move on. Great things are waiting for you iyh.
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Re: I'm about to FALL!! 12 Jun 2020 13:15 #351104

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Love this idea, but it confuses me because if someone/i am in that state of mind, even posting may not stop/prevent, but only delay, and then potentially speaking with someone would also just be a further delay, and it could also seem odd to be thinking that, and also asking someone to call you. the emergency picture resource i found on this site once helped a lot, and the whatsapp status about our blood being as korban if we hold it, but i've been falling weekly/monthly for a year now.

Re: I'm about to FALL!! 14 Jun 2020 10:48 #351149

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Speaking to someone is not to delay acting out. It is to help you rewire your brain about sexuality, and to create accountability. It helps remove the "need" to act out....
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