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Re: Zemmy's story 12 Aug 2011 16:05 #114454

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a saying for today

I love a crooked tree more than I hate a crooked man.
-- Frank Kramer, Councilman; Feb. 1, 1916; Palo Alto, CA

wishing all my dear friends and everyone a wonderful shabbos, full of nechama, simcha and bracha
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
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The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Zemmy's story 12 Aug 2011 21:36 #114478

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Uman to that!
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Re: Zemmy's story 15 Aug 2011 12:47 #114582

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Hey zemmy... Just dropping by ur thread to say Shalom. Hope you had A great shabbos!
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Re: Zemmy's story 15 Aug 2011 13:44 #114587

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ZemirosShabbos wrote on 12 Aug 2011 16:05:

a saying for today

I love a crooked tree more than I hate a crooked man.
-- Frank Kramer, Councilman; Feb. 1, 1916; Palo Alto, CA



The Kotzker Rebbe zt wrote:


Better a rosho who knows he's a rosho than a tzaddik who knows he's a tzaddik.

The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars.
If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look.
I can guard my eyes.
I want to guard my eyes.
I do guard my eyes.
Why do I say these four lines?
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Re: Zemmy's story 15 Aug 2011 15:03 #114598

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Back on Track wrote on 12 Aug 2011 21:36:

Uman

Rosh Hashana?

and thanks for dropping by BOT, great to see you
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Zemmy's story 15 Aug 2011 15:08 #114599

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Blind Beggar wrote on 15 Aug 2011 13:44:

ZemirosShabbos wrote on 12 Aug 2011 16:05:

a saying for today

I love a crooked tree more than I hate a crooked man.
-- Frank Kramer, Councilman; Feb. 1, 1916; Palo Alto, CA



The Kotzker Rebbe zt wrote:


Better a rosho who knows he's a rosho than a tzaddik who knows he's a tzaddik.


rebbe BB, i think we differ in our interpretation of that saying. to me it seemed like the idea was to appreciate and focus on the crooked trees, which have a special beauty, as opposed to moping about and being bitter because of crooked people (reminiscent of torah 282 - Azamra )
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Zemmy's story 15 Aug 2011 15:14 #114601

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Umain!
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Re: Zemmy's story 15 Aug 2011 15:17 #114603

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a saying for today

Promises that you make to yourself are often like the Japanese plum tree - they bear no fruit.
-- Francis Marion
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Zemmy's story 15 Aug 2011 17:39 #114630

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On shabbos i was speaking to a guy who has a yeshiva for bochurim. In the conversation he said that he heard that there are yidden who go to SA, but he said it doesn't make sense that there are yidden who need it.
i felt like bopping him on the head and telling him that many of my friends go and it is exactly his attitude that puts an obstacle in front of people who need it. i am still considering if, and what to tell him about this subject
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Zemmy's story 15 Aug 2011 17:50 #114635

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You bring up a point I have been thinking about.  Does anyone have experience telling a regular friend (who you assume does not have a problem in this area) about your problem?  Did they understand? How did it affect your friendship?
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Re: Zemmy's story 15 Aug 2011 17:56 #114638

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my chavrusa and close friend of many years knows about gye, and he figured out my screen name in about 5 minutes flat (i still wonder about that) but he did not read my story and i don't know how much he infers/deducts about my 'problem'. we are as good friends as ever.
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Zemmy's story 15 Aug 2011 18:15 #114645

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ZemirosShabbos wrote on 15 Aug 2011 15:17:


Quotes about fruit trees from one ignorant in pomology are like promises you make to yourself, they're usually rotten.


Is that what you really meant to say?

N.B.

po·mol·o·gy   /poʊˈmɒlədʒi/ [poh-mol-uh-jee]
noun
the science that deals with fruits and fruit growing.


The loquat, Eriobotrya japonica, is a fruit tree in the family Rosaceae, indigenous to southeastern China. It was formerly thought to be closely related to the genus Mespilus, and is still sometimes known as the Japanese medlar. It is also known as Japanese plum and as Chinese plum.

Loquats are unusual among fruit trees in that the flowers appear in the autumn or early winter, and the fruits are ripe in late winter or early spring. The flowers are 2 cm diameter, white, with five petals, and produced in stiff panicles of three to ten flowers. The flowers have a sweet, heady aroma that can be smelled from a distance.

Loquat fruits, growing in clusters, are oval, rounded or pear-shaped, 3–5 cm long, with a smooth or downy, yellow or orange, sometimes red-blushed skin. The succulent, tangy flesh is white, yellow or orange and sweet to subacid or acid, depending on the cultivar. Each fruit contains five ovules, of which one to five mature into large brown seeds. The skin, though thin, can be peeled off manually if the fruit is ripe.

The fruits are the sweetest when soft and orange. The flavor is a mix of peach, citrus and mild mango.
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Re: Zemmy's story 15 Aug 2011 18:16 #114646

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from a zoo to a fruit store??????
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Re: Zemmy's story 15 Aug 2011 18:21 #114650

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bardichev wrote on 15 Aug 2011 18:16:

from a zoo to a fruit store??????



Other Uses of the Loquat:

Animal feed: The young branches have been lopped for fodder.

Medicinal Uses: The fruit is said to act as a sedative and is eaten to halt vomiting and thirst. (Take two loquats with each shot of Woodford).

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Re: Zemmy's story 15 Aug 2011 18:25 #114652

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isn't pomology the study of Flatbush mega-groceries?
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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