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Re: Zemmy's story 01 Mar 2012 18:29 #134034

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one of the things i do is worry. in yiddish there is a word "ibbertrachten". rehashing, re-figuring, what if, why, coulda-shoulda-woulda.
this piece from Elyah's superb thread is קולע אל המטרה
Eye.nonymous wrote on 24 Feb 2012 08:20:

96. Three thinks is the limit.

Don't obsess. Instead, take some constructive action.

--Elyah

as well as this email www.guardureyes.com/GUE/GUEList2/GUEList2_6.asp #283
Five Powerful Words: 'What Can I Do Now?'
(i got the email, and glanced at it but did not read it much. a friend forwarded it to me. that pushed me to read it. thank you sir!)

and i got this email today as well:
mim.io/cc6f52?fe=1&pact=7904249134

and last but not least, my wife, who summed it all up this morning when she said "do something about it".

i would love to share the secret to overcoming worry. but it seems not to have been delivered to my doorstep yet.
but to dwell on it and ibbertracht and re-hash is definitely not the right way. taking action is good. worrying about it is not.

Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ

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Re: Zemmy's story 02 Mar 2012 06:59 #134064

The Official GYE Bardiche	HELLO ZEMMY I CAME TO VISIT! AS FOR IBBERTRACHTING THE REBBE ALWAYS SAYS DON'T GRIBBLE
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Re: Zemmy's story 02 Mar 2012 18:30 #134094

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thank you mr.togbrp for stopping by and for the the wisdom from the rebbe.

being that this is page 100 of my thread i think it calls for some type of ceremony.
ahem...
we are gathered here tonight...
forget it

be'emes, it is a good thing to appreciate what GYE has done for so many and for me specifically. before GYE i was in the dark. looking at bad stuff. feeling bad about it. hiding. feeling like some mutated armadillo. not seeing how the lusting is not the problem, it is the solution i used to comfort myself in the face of my real problems.
now i am not cured or fixed or unpickled, but at least i am more aware of what's going on inside, seeing the resentments, fears and insecurities for what they are. friends who can identify are probably the greatest gift i have gotten from GYE, second only to a new lease on yiddishkeit which has gotten more real and relevant than ever before.
Reb Guard shlita, thank you so much!

and to my friends, bechol makom shehaim, i love you and i thank you for being my friend and for your support chizuk advice jokes recipes and coupons.
and to myself and to anyone else the best thing to do is to keep on posting, zamboniing, hummering, trucking, tomato dipping, SINGING, cholinting and kugeling ad bias hagoel.

Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ

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Re: Zemmy's story 02 Mar 2012 19:27 #134103

gibbor120 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Posts: 5251 Karma: 166	That waz beautiful zem :'( . BTW it's only page 30 for me, you can choose the number of posts per page. You've got a loooong way to go to get to 100... so KOP!
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Re: Zemmy's story 02 Mar 2012 22:42 #134116

obormottel OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1440 Karma: 6	Keep ~~going the good go!~~ ~~fighting a good fight!~~ trucking the good truck! It's page 30 by me too, so, yeah, you got a long way to go, young man!
	Baby steps. If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas! Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans. Last Edit: by .

Re: Zemmy's story 03 Mar 2012 18:15 #134122

TehillimZugger OFFLINE Platinum Boarder לבד הנשמה הטהורה Posts: 2446 Karma: 34	it's page 100 for me so congrats also, while you did mention tomato dip, you said nothing about essen challah, let's holler!
	?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him? Last Edit: by .

Re: Zemmy's story 03 Mar 2012 18:29 #134125

Blind Beggar OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Not a sexaholic, just trying to be good. Posts: 780 Karma: 12	100 pages in your thread! SMF has only just been installed and you have 100 pages already!
	The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars. If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look. I can guard my eyes. I want to guard my eyes. I do guard my eyes. Why do I say these four lines? Last Edit: by .

Re: Zemmy's story 05 Mar 2012 19:44 #134258

shteeble OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2024 Karma: 30	bb u make me lol ;D ;D ;D
	some of my threads Last Edit: by .

Re: Zemmy's story 06 Mar 2012 17:44 #134313

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	40004 wrote on 31 Oct 2011 18:00: possums
	Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise ~Inna beshem ZS Give, Forgive ~Cordnoy The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting. ~TZ Last Edit: by .

Re: Zemmy's story 06 Mar 2012 18:26 #134322

TehillimZugger OFFLINE Platinum Boarder לבד הנשמה הטהורה Posts: 2446 Karma: 34	ZemirosShabbos wrote on 31 Oct 2011 18:05: kickboxing possums
	?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him? Last Edit: by .

Re: Zemmy's story 06 Mar 2012 18:58 #134329

shteeble OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 2024 Karma: 30	hi where's the girraffe?? ?? ?? ??
	some of my threads Last Edit: by .

Re: Zemmy's story 06 Mar 2012 19:15 #134331

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	taking voice lessons
	Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise ~Inna beshem ZS Give, Forgive ~Cordnoy The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting. ~TZ Last Edit: by .

Re: Zemmy's story 06 Mar 2012 19:24 #134336

TehillimZugger OFFLINE Platinum Boarder לבד הנשמה הטהורה Posts: 2446 Karma: 34	ZemirosShabbos wrote on 06 Mar 2012 19:15: taking voice lessons hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm the reason the giraffe is called a tachash [TZ i'm sure you can find a link to where this was discussed a couple of weeks ago] is because it never makes a sound rather it is always בחשאי
	?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him? Last Edit: by .

Re: Zemmy's story 06 Mar 2012 19:28 #134337

ZemirosShabbos OFFLINE Platinum Boarder pass the compote Posts: 6153 Karma: 72	that is exactly why it needs voice lessons
	Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise ~Inna beshem ZS Give, Forgive ~Cordnoy The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting. ~TZ Last Edit: by .

Re: Zemmy's story 06 Mar 2012 19:34 #134340

TehillimZugger OFFLINE Platinum Boarder לבד הנשמה הטהורה Posts: 2446 Karma: 34	ZemirosShabbos wrote on 06 Mar 2012 19:28: that is exactly why it needs voice lessons just clarifying that p.s. i like your new sig recording it for posterity eat tomato dip, and gain diplomatic immunity holler about challah GyEfilte fish rocks!
	?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him? Last Edit: by .