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On the Way to 90-Days

Giving it another shot

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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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Re: Giving it another shot 04 May 2021 01:04 #367913

EvedHashem1836
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Mazal tov!!!

Think about how good it feels to make it this far. Then think about how it will feel even better (if you can imagine) once u make it to 3 weeks.

With you every step of the way

Think about how good you'll feel if you say no to desire and compare that to how bad you'll feel if you say yes.

Desire is unique in the way that it is never fulfilled - if you give in the desire comes back even more powerful in just a few days. Telling yourself that its ok because this is really the last time doesn't work because you are just adding new images to your head that will cause future falls.

The Joy of triumph over the yetzer hara is worth the effort it takes to win. It IS worth it! Keep fighting!

My thread:
Aiming to be better

Feel free to contact me at evedhashem1836@gmail.com

Re: Giving it another shot 05 May 2021 13:11 #368006

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	I had a fall yesterday. While I know all too well about falling I also know all about how important it is to get right up dust myself off & start again. Hatzlacha to all! Anothershot
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 05 May 2021 13:32 #368007

Grant400
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Love the attitude! Please, please, please, please write down how you feel and the clarity you have after the orgasm/binge. Read it when confronted with the same temptations and break the magical grasp it has on your discipline.

"Just Regular Movies"
The Five Languages of Love
For Married Men
The Story Teller (New)
Comment Thread for The Story Teller (New)
The Story Teller (Old)
Comment Thread for The Story Teller (Old)
Those Flashes of Clarity
Embarrassing Things We All Do and Think
How To Function Despite Lust

I lost a 6 month streak. I will get back there. Not if, but when. When? Now.

l can be reached at: Grant.400@yahoo.com

Re: Giving it another shot 05 May 2021 18:58 #368021

EvedHashem1836
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If you get right back up you can continue pretty much where you left off - don't fall in a binge!!

Re: Giving it another shot 11 May 2021 02:18 #368322

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	7!
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 11 May 2021 04:25 #368339

EvedHashem1836
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Happy you've dusted yourself off!

Re: Giving it another shot 24 Oct 2021 05:54 #373549

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	I've been away for way too long I'm coming back and trying again for 90 days clean.
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 24 Oct 2021 11:41 #373556

ARF Current streak: 9 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 10 Karma: 3	Wow!!! Keep on posting.

Re: Giving it another shot 24 Oct 2021 22:30 #373571

Hashem Help Me Current streak: 1984 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 3172	Welcome back!!
	Feel free to contact me at michelgelner@gmail.com My threads: Lessons Learned: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/335248-Lessons-Learned My Story and G-d Bless GYE: guardyoureyes.com/forum/17-Balei-Battims-Forum/303036-My-story-and-G-d-bless-GYE

Re: Giving it another shot 25 Oct 2021 04:10 #373577

Zedj Current streak: 228 days OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 519 Karma: 40	We are rooting for you!its great to see you back!
	One who has given up hope is without a G‑d. One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Giving it another shot 26 Oct 2021 02:58 #373597

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	2!
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 27 Oct 2021 00:50 #373622

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	3!
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!

Re: Giving it another shot 28 Oct 2021 03:47 #373652

Yankee OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 7 Karma: 0	You make us proud, keep it up!

Re: Giving it another shot 28 Oct 2021 05:08 #373654

anothershot OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 152 Karma: 7	4!
	My threads: Giving it another shot One step at a time Daily (I hope) Excerpt from Sefer Zos Brisi I am going to beat this monster one step at a time... One day at a time!