For introduction yes
But there may be a lot relevant to what dov said
I recommend you read his entire post
here
Heres a partial quote
"There is a type of honesty here on GYE...but it is really just 'honesty by proxy': the admitting of shameful facts that is made possible
because our identities are hidden.
The lack of vulnerability which is GYE's greatest strength is simultaneously it's greatest weakness. If GYE were not only virtual, most people would never even
log on and they'd then remain in pretty hopeless isolation. And I agree that GYE is the most dangerous place to identify ourselves openly - so no one does. And that is as it should be, b"H! But
because of the fact that there is no real vulnerability, the honesty is also rendered sterile. It can be a tremendous start - and I do know way over 100 men in great recovery today (because they
left GYE and moved on to good therapy, and/or live 12 steps groups, etc) who all started out timidly and 'safely' on GYE! But I feel that the fruit of virtual honesty can be no better than:
virtual recovery. And almost all the success stories I know, will tell you that that's why they had to eventually leave GYE. Just check out the
Ted talk that Guard publicized a couple of years ago that was titled, "
Everything you think you know about addiction is wrong" by Johann Hari, wherein he states that all the power 12 steps recovery has, stems from the creation of REAL relationships - not virtual ones! Precisely GYE's weakness. GYE can bring addicts to the water, but it has none for them to drink. Addicts will need the Real thing provided by real recovery relationships with real people."
He has a lot more to say - checkout the Dov posts page by Gibbor
Hope you have an easy fast and signed for a happy sober year!!