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Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 29 Dec 2015 18:08 #272709

shlomo24
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iwant2begood wrote:

Your totally right but what's the way to get rid of it sometimes it's just to strong

What I do is ask god to get rid of it. Like you said, it's very strong sometimes, for me it's like that also. I have tried many things in the past but nothing had lasting success. I eventually came to the reality that nothing I could do would work. I just needed to let the feeling pass and try not to succumb to it. That didn't work either. Which led me to the answer I have now which is to ask god to take it away. Nothing is stronger than hashem and he can take it away. I also find that calling others and explaining my predicament is really helpful, it takes me out of isolation and out of my own head, which is the problem in the first place.

Also, you are good already. You're just struggling. Many good people struggle.

If you're an LGBTQ or LGBTQ-questioning person and looking for someone who can understand you, feel free to reach out. I promise no judgement and to try and listen the best I can.

Email: iam24zman@gmail.com

Last Edit: 29 Dec 2015 18:10 by shlomo24.

Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 29 Dec 2015 19:35 #272721

iwant2begood Current streak: 3259 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 136 Karma: 13	Thnx for the explanation hope to use it when it gets hard

Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 29 Dec 2015 20:02 #272725

take it easy Current streak: 317 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 7 Karma: 0	Thank you so much for the tips

Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 30 Dec 2015 18:05 #272853

iwant2begood Current streak: 3259 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 136 Karma: 13	How is day 15 coming along??! I'm trailing behind good luck

Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 30 Dec 2015 20:43 #272868

heiligeryid Current streak: 1276 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 48 Karma: 1	So far so good b"h. I don't feel an urge to see bad stuff, praying that it should stay this way. How is your journey?

Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 30 Dec 2015 21:22 #272873

iwant2begood Current streak: 3259 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 136 Karma: 13	Bh pretty good up to day 14 just got a sponsor the past 2 days were pretty hard but I managed . keep on going strong good luck!

Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 04 Jan 2016 03:46 #273252

heiligeryid Current streak: 1276 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 48 Karma: 1	TWENTY! yes i'm entering my 20th day b"h. Over the last few days i had a couple of nisyonos that almost had me fall, but i managed to overcome them. Hope y'all doin' great!

Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 04 Jan 2016 04:04 #273258

Markz OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 8258 Karma: 428	heiligeryid wrote: TWENTY! yes i'm entering my 20th day b"h. Over the last few days i had a couple of nisyonos that almost had me fall, but i managed to overcome them. Hope y'all doin' great! WOW Keep On Trucking
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Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 05 Jan 2016 17:19 #273425

iwant2begood Current streak: 3259 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 136 Karma: 13	Way to go!!!!

Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 26 Jan 2016 22:37 #275546

heiligeryid Current streak: 1276 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 48 Karma: 1	I didn't post here for quite a while, but i'm still trucking on my journey, reaching today b"h day #42! Also i visit the forum daily, reading lots of gevaldige insights from all of you. Thanks to everyone & much Hatzlachah!

Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 26 Jan 2016 22:38 #275548

heiligeryid Current streak: 1276 days OFFLINE Senior Boarder Posts: 48 Karma: 1	BTW iwant2begood how's your ride goin'?

Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 26 Jan 2016 23:05 #275553

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heiligeryid wrote:

I didn't post here for quite a while, but i'm still trucking on my journey, reaching today b"h day #42!
Also i visit the forum daily, reading lots of gevaldige insights from all of you. Thanks to everyone & much Hatzlachah!

Your truck went racing in a tunnel, and you pop your head out weeks later to Honk

It's great to hear how you're doing!!!!

KOHT

Keep On Heilige Trucking!!

My Story---------Dov Quotes

FREE LUST TRUCK TOWING
Click HERE to checkout;
• 100 Day Success Stories: cordnoy, Dov, Gevura and more...
• Awesome Threads Saved for You
• Cast Your Vote

➣ GYE Plenty Solutions
➣ The Mark of Torah - Lust Chizuk
➣ Nice Trucking Story

Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 27 Jan 2016 04:46 #275583

BenTorah.BaalHabayis OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 321 Karma: 12	That's gevaldig!
	Feel free to email me at BenTorah.BaalHabayis@gmail.com 1 day may be too long for me, but I take it OWAAT = One wave at a time, cause the lust comes and goes like a wave which rises and crashes.

Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 27 Jan 2016 08:49 #275596

iwant2begood Current streak: 3259 days OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 136 Karma: 13	Day 42 . Even though the urge got much less but the withdrawal symptoms got much stronger. The past few days I'm feeling very depressed i need some chizzuk.

Re: My journey to become a HeiligerYid! 27 Jan 2016 12:55 #275602

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iwant2begood wrote:

Day 42 . Even though the urge got much less but the withdrawal symptoms got much stronger. The past few days I'm feeling very depressed i need some chizzuk.

I hear you. 42 is awesome; congratulations on that! I hope you feel proud about it. Take a moment to appreciate it.

Can you do exercise? It really helps so many things; it makes you feel so much better.

I play sports once a week and when I get home and my wife notices the difference in my mood she says "You should do this every day!"

Stay shtark; people are looking up to you!