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so afraid, what if ,,, what if,,,, 11 Sep 2015 16:14 #263750

minyusa Current streak: 21 days OFFLINE Fresh Boarder Posts: 4 Karma: 0	I hope it will never happen, after so long. But what if... Will it break me totally. will I cry? will I give up? I hope to never be there again, but how do I prepare myself is Ch"v I did fall. Or rather never think in those lines

Re: so afraid, what if ,,, what if,,,, 11 Sep 2015 16:27 #263751

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Can you stay clean for today? Why think about tomorrow?

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Re: so afraid, what if ,,, what if,,,, 12 Sep 2015 21:09 #263777

MBJ OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 655 Karma: 114	As someone who fell and fell hard after 500+ days, I can tell you it sucks. But then a new time starts right after. All the progress and all the tools you learned to get to 297 days doesn't leave you. So don't worry about falling, worry about enjoying the precious life and freedom the RBS"O has given you.
	My Story Only when we make our real lives sweeter than our fantasies will we reap the emotional rewards, the happiness of recovery. - AlexEliezer Focus on making the right choices as they come up. - Skeptical When I start to literally accept G-d's Will as guiding my life today, things start to change. - Dov

Re: so afraid, what if ,,, what if,,,, 13 Sep 2015 01:39 #263781

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I don't think you are even allowed to worry.
Be thankful for today and do what you need to do for the moment.

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Re: so afraid, what if ,,, what if,,,, 16 Sep 2015 02:41 #263827

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I echo the thoughts of the others here.

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