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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 28 Apr 2014 00:58 #230690

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I forgot about that. Sorry Yankel. Hope it goes well.

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 28 Apr 2014 02:29 #230699

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Bravo to you!

And Doc, dependin' on where a person is at is the amount of what he needs.
I'm not so sure there is such a thin' in this business as a "half-measure" - at least as a generality....I found for myself and for others here that there comes a time that they need to take action.

That was true by me; I think by you as well; I can name several others here who have done so as well, and it netted a positive result.

There are those who hold firm as well.

thanks

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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 28 Apr 2014 16:58 #230752

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Dr.Watson wrote:
( Like a bagel with no hole, 12 steps without a group and a sponsor is simply incomplete....
12 Steps are the way we are and how we think and feel. Our sponsor tells us just what we should do......
So if you find you keep relapsing and cannot stay sober,
You have to work the program through and through.......


An exert from the Marvelous middos machine, in case anyone thought I was going mad).


Who spilled the seed on the bathroom floor? Not me! It wasn't me....
Midvar sheker tirchok, never tell a lie!
Hashem knows just what happened there's no reason to deny!
Honesty is emes, make sure all your words are true
So Tatty, Mommy, and SA will be so proud of you!
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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 28 Apr 2014 21:43 #230766

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I hear Yankel, TZ separation is tough. [I know when I get separated from TZ it's terrible for me.] So did the therapist suggest anything for the withdrawal symptoms?
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 29 Apr 2014 00:03 #230773

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He said that they're growing pains
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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 29 Apr 2014 00:10 #230774

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Zugging Tehilim helps me with my withdrawal symptoms...
I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com

My name is Daniel, I go to face to face meetings and I work the 12 steps with a sponsor. 

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 29 Apr 2014 02:12 #230780

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Hey Yankel! it's been the longest time. kol hakavod on your bold move!

if you need TZ (we all do), one word: Reykjavik
he was trying to catch the Northern Lights and put them in bottles with a miniature tehillim and a clay figurine with a purple yarmulka, long story...
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

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The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 29 Apr 2014 02:32 #230783

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You mean like this?

northern-light.jpg
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"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 29 Apr 2014 04:38 #230794

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Dr.Watson
An exert from the Marvelous middos machine, in case anyone thought I was going mad).


That's funny. I was sure I remembered it with different words!

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 29 Apr 2014 23:31 #230878

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ZemirosShabbos
he was trying to catch the Northern Lights and put them in bottles with a miniature tehillim and a clay figurine


HEY TZ????? You never told me your in Canada???? What is up with that???

PS Mincha is in 15. Today is special as the northern lights are our backdrop. BARUCH HASHEM!
I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com

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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 29 Apr 2014 23:52 #230880

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I just want to say for the record that Yankel has always been tremendously helpful to me in finding my way through the tough times. He's always there to help anyone who is struggling, not just in this area but any areas of avodas Hashem.

Thank you Yankel for your contribution!

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 30 Apr 2014 15:14 #230934

Dr.Watson wrote:
I just want to say for the record that Yankel has always been tremendously helpful to me in finding my way through the tough times. He's always there to help anyone who is struggling, not just in this area but any areas of avodas Hashem.

Thank you Yankel for your contribution!


va'ani mitztaref lehanal

(although i take no responsibility if yankel has to get a new hat cause his head swells)
i used to look back all the time saying "oh no! what have i done! Hashem help me erase the past." and i never heard a response.
finally i started looking forward saying "Hashem i'm leaving the past to you and i'm forgetting all about it. help me have a good future. help me from here and on be the person You want me to be." and that's where i realized Hashem had been waiting to help me all along

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 30 Apr 2014 15:18 #230936

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Yankel's head won't swell, he can't take the "Growing pains"...
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: Yaakov's Ladder 01 May 2014 23:00 #231036

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Dr.Watson wrote:
I just want to say for the record that Yankel has always been tremendously helpful to me in finding my way through the tough times. He's always there to help anyone who is struggling, not just in this area but any areas of avodas Hashem.

Thank you Yankel for your contribution!



Thumbs up!!! nothing to add!!
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Re: Yaakov's Ladder 05 May 2014 01:53 #231149

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