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Re: Yossi's Journey 30 Nov 2011 00:29 #127140

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I would. what is the issue here?
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Re: Yossi's Journey 30 Nov 2011 00:30 #127141

  • gevura shebyesod
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If you change your nick she will probably find you anyway....i guess you'll just have to trust her.

Also if you want to post something she shouldn't see you can use the "Married Guys" section.

How many smileys today?

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"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: Yossi's Journey 30 Nov 2011 16:44 #127209

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Had the same issue.  I just decided, if she looks, she looks.  She admitted to looking a couple of times and said she was impressed with what I wrote. 

She really has no patience to read this stuff so I don't think she is on here much. 

I agree with Gevura.  You can post sensitive stuff under the baal habatim section.  Hiding from her by changing your name might maker her more upset.
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Re: Yossi's Journey 30 Nov 2011 19:47 #127255

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Thanks guys.

I wasn't aware of the married guys section. I will check it out.
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Re: Yossi's Journey 30 Nov 2011 19:51 #127257

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You need to request access from guard.
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Re: Yossi's Journey 04 Dec 2011 03:32 #127574

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How do I access the Married Mens forum or website?
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Re: Yossi's Journey 04 Dec 2011 03:51 #127575

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Gut Voch Yossi!

Click on Profile, then click Group Membership on the left side. There will be a list of groups with "Request Membership" buttons next to them.

KOMT!!!!!

Gevura!
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וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant


My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends
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Re: Yossi's Journey 05 Dec 2011 02:10 #127662

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Thank you Gevura
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Re: Yossi's Journey 05 Dec 2011 02:11 #127663

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Re: Yossi's Journey 08 Dec 2011 14:58 #128093

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I am one day away from my matching my previous clean streak of 37 days. I tried to push this to the back of my mind however, for some reason I can't stop thinking about it. Every time I have had a clean streak and then I near my previous mark it usually is a tough time for me. My yetzer hara starts doing some logistical planning and attacks. So far he hasnt attacked, but I am on guard.
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Re: Yossi's Journey 08 Dec 2011 15:05 #128096

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Maybe you need to stop counting.  Focusing on it too much seems to be counter productive for you.
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Re: Yossi's Journey 11 Dec 2011 04:21 #128275

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Maybe you're right I'm not sure there is both negative and positive things about counting
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Re: Yossi's Journey 11 Dec 2011 04:22 #128276

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either way today i eclipsed my previous streak and i am 38 days clean
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Re: Yossi's Journey 11 Dec 2011 04:22 #128277

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A smiley for every day
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Re: Yossi's Journey 11 Dec 2011 04:23 #128278

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