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how to stay Tahor 01 Feb 2014 00:17 #227240

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I never thought that it was possible, but I have now reached 180+ days without resorting to porn or masturbation, which were my two problems and to which I remain susceptible if I don't watch myself. At a superficial level, I can say that my marital intimacy has really improved tremendously. The key is now uprooting the memories of what I read, saw and experienced, and which always tempt me to say that you enjoyed yourself, etc. The 20 step process , which I have been reading ,and the great chevra here, , and the daily chizuk emails. and the realization that I am not alone, have aided me tremendously, and are offering me immense Chizuk. This truly is a website that every Torah observant Jew who faces the issue of porn, masturbation or worse, must get involved with, regardless of his hashkafic orientation. Just one question-do member of GYE in the NY area ever meet for a kumsitz or melaveh malkeh?

Re: how to stay Tahor 01 Feb 2014 00:19 #227242

gibbor120 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Posts: 5251 Karma: 166	MAZAL TOV!
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Re: how to stay Tahor 01 Feb 2014 00:25 #227244

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Thanks! GYE simply is an amazing place-the chevra, the emails , the chizuk, and the realization that you are not alone, and that we are all striving and shteiging towards maximizing our potential is so important. The daily emails, and especially the stories,are incredibly inspiring. Without GYE, I can state Bli Safek, that I would be still be mired in masturbation, porn and the continuous need to feed my sex drive via inappropriate fantasies .

Re: how to stay Tahor 01 Feb 2014 02:36 #227247

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Mazel Tov KUTGW!!!

!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

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Re: how to stay Tahor 02 Feb 2014 13:40 #227271

think good Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 222 Karma: 3	MAZAL TOV! keep up the good work

Re: how to stay Tahor 03 Feb 2014 08:31 #227306

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	That's great! Hashem is so good to you, SIB1616282832. Have a really nice day!
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

Re: how to stay Tahor 03 Feb 2014 12:30 #227311

Pidaini OFFLINE Platinum Boarder פדני מעושק אדם-מיצר הרע העושק את הבריות-רש"י Posts: 2189 Karma: 107	MAZAL TOV!!! May Hashem help us continue to support each other one day at a time!!! Dov wrote: SIB1616282832 you forgot the "56" at the end!!!
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Re: how to stay Tahor 23 Feb 2014 03:00 #228054

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What does this number mean?
thanks

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Re: how to stay Tahor 23 Feb 2014 09:52 #228062

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	? number? You mean the number on the end of the guy who calls himself SIB,etc,etc? It's just stam a number he picked for his username. You can just use your first name as I do, though...it's fine. Or the 'doingteshuvah' moniker, whatever u like, chaver
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."