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i need help 01 Jul 2015 12:44 #258278

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Can someone pls tell me if my mind is going the real way ...... i am working in a place but i c hear things what u r not allowed i want 2 know what i am spouse 2 do?

Re: i need help 01 Jul 2015 13:18 #258284

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Welcome bobov!! I'm not going to ask the question that is on everybody's mind......

Don't be a stranger, tell us more about yourself, about your struggles, we can't offer our similar experiences if we don't know what we're comparing them to.

Keep on Posting!!
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Re: i need help 01 Jul 2015 13:25 #258286

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You have made the first move towards help. Now get involved in the resources that are on the site and keep us posted. Hatzlachah!
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You cannot make yourself feel something you do not feel, but you can make yourself do right in spite of your feelings.

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Re: i need help 01 Jul 2015 13:28 #258287

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WELCOME! Read the handbook. Keep posting. The more you express yourself, the better.

Re: i need help 01 Jul 2015 13:52 #258288

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Pidaini wrote:
Welcome bobov!! I'm not going to ask the question that is on everybody's mind......


No if there are no numbers in the name there are no questions in anyone's minds!!

But the truth is the bais din never said about how you need to write bobov on a site for addicts. So maybe your right that there is a question here. I'm not sure i think we need to ask the Rabbonim of the bais din.

Anyway....

Welcome bobov!!!

Please listen to Pidaini and share a bit more about yourself.

Keep On Posting!!!

Re: i need help 01 Jul 2015 14:03 #258289

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bobov wrote:
i want 2 know what i am spouse 2 do?

Perhaps some of the old timers would suggest the following...
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Re: i need help 01 Jul 2015 15:07 #258294

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Welcome,

Most of us would suggest to leave the spouse out of it.

What's goin' on?
What are you seein'?
What are you hearin'?
What are you thinkin'?

Lookin' forward for more.

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Re: i need help 17 Aug 2015 15:11 #261924

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Cordnoy
Most of us would suggest to leave the spouse out of it.


At what point would you bring the spouse into it?
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Re: i need help 17 Aug 2015 15:46 #261926

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I guess Bobov is on vacation.

Re: i need help 17 Aug 2015 16:48 #261936

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eslaasos wrote:
Cordnoy
Most of us would suggest to leave the spouse out of it.


At what point would you bring the spouse into it?


Every case is different.
No general rules (at least from me).

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