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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 01 Dec 2022 03:59 #388667

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chancy wrote on 30 Nov 2022 19:59:
I think Geshmak is correct in that most erliche yiden have no clue what porn is, nor will they ever know, BH for that. 
But with sex addiction or masturbation, Shmuel is probably right. lots of people are addicted to sex they dont know it. There is a reason why Chazal banned touching oneself even to go to the bathroom or any number of things that chazal banned because one might get aroused. a few examples are, laying your back or front, going to the mikva with father, father in law, brother in law, etc. touching. 
Guys were always easily excited and todays world is much more exposed to exciting sights. 
So i think there are many, many more people that could benefit from GYE. However, unlike Geshmak here, im not Geshma in any sense.....
I dont have friends or people that would ever confide in me. So im all out of ideas how i can help. 

Thx for your beautiful clear post! Love it!!

you asked at the end how can you help- you can daven for them that h should help them all find the light( I’m sure you do , I’m just posting it to give idea to others reading that they should also daven for others suffering in the dark web)
thx again for your beautiful post!
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 01 Dec 2022 04:03 #388668

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Hey I see gye is up to 13,999! Who’s gonna be zichus to be the 14,000 member of this haligah organization???
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 01 Dec 2022 04:49 #388670

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Geshmak! wrote on 01 Dec 2022 03:59:

chancy wrote on 30 Nov 2022 19:59:
Guys were always easily excited and todays world is much more exposed to exciting sights. 
So i think there are many, many more people that could benefit from GYE. However, unlike Geshmak here, im not Geshma in any sense.....
how i can help. 

you can daven for them that h should help them all find the light
thx again for your beautiful post!

chancy Hey there, 
I firstly agree with Geshmak, just Davening opens up the heavens and makes yeshuos, although we don't see them it is harder to believe, so we have to really believe it is helping. Second, in a more practical way of speaking, you probally don't see your friends on here, but for all you know they are, or have their own program on the side or even a book. You never know and that can be in effect from your tefilos for them. But yes, in case I would say we do have to figure out a way to publicize this and make it comfortable for people to discuss like we are in order to save themselves, they just need a warm outstretched hand towards them with sincere love and care that isn't looking to criticize them or jugde them in any fashion. 
Shkoyach on spreading your awareness and care to help others, it aspired me, thanks.
To my dear friend reading this:
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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 04 Dec 2022 19:47 #388877

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anybody who can help me here?

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 04 Dec 2022 19:49 #388878

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yoel18 wrote on 04 Dec 2022 19:47:
anybody who can help me here?

We're all here to help... Please specify what's going on...
Thanks! 
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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 04 Dec 2022 20:45 #388882

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What do you mean with your post? Would you like to post some info of your struggle and receive guidance? Are you looking to speak or meet with someone? Are you looking for resources - therapy, articles, methods?
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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 12 Dec 2022 02:42 #389297

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Wow gye is going strong bh!! I see we’re up to 14,024 so many new members it’s amazing! But I’m just wondering like what all you hundreds of new members do on this site … like I’m sure most of you do the f2f program which is not stam and also so many beautiful stuff to read and watch in the library… but I’m sure most of you or all check out this awesome forum. But I don’t see you guys posting on it… like come on! Can you all start posting abt yourself a little like what you struggle with and how you wish to get helped or what helped you the most… or what you wish can be a help etc. like  nobody knows who you are so you can type your heart out!! It’s so healthy you’ll feel great after  I promise ( besides the responses you’ll get) even if nobody will respond it still a healthy step to recovery it gets you out of your dark secret you won’t feel like its u and only u going through this and it makes you feel so much more part of the gye family… and you’ll see once u get your first post out it will be easier to post more and you can give and take so much chizuk!! So if your reading this and you haven’t posted your first post yet… please please please do it right NOW!! ( like what are you waiting for,hu?!?!)Just open a new thread and introduce yourself doesn’t have to be major you can just write around your age (I’m in my twenties etc.) and your type ( kollel, working, bucher, etc) and you can say when you started or what your biggest struggles are ( porn , chat lines, or just plan can’t stop being mzl, etc) and you can just say I wish to stop or I did this to stop or I’m working on this mehalich to stop etc.
I’m looking forward to see all you new guys posting bhy!!
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Last Edit: 15 Dec 2022 00:13 by geshmak!.

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 16 Dec 2022 05:18 #389526

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Today was an awesome day for gye bh!! A bunch new chavrah posted their first post… AH!! First let me thank all you new members that had the courage to post ( I know it wasn’t easy but it is well worth it,you’ll see) so if any of you are reading this please pat yourself on the back! And second all the other guys reading this and you hadn’t posted yet please do so for your on good… you won’t  regret it bro,guaranteed!!
good shabbos!
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Last Edit: 16 Dec 2022 18:18 by geshmak!.

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 06 Feb 2023 01:16 #391625

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Gye going strong! 14,203 members on this life changing site!!
but I don’t see to much of what’s happening… like I wish more of the new chavrah would post abt their struggles and accomplishments. Like I’m sure the people working at gye see the progress like how many do the f2f program and how many guys reach 90 days, I wish I would know too. Nu nu, I guess you don’t always get what you want.
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

Feel free to pm me!

Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 17 Feb 2023 18:38 #392236

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14,253!!! Love this place! It’s rocking away! Good shabbos!
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 20 Feb 2023 18:12 #392369

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Big shoutout to @Geshmak, whose post was mentioned on the Headlines show this past week, which was about Shmiras Einayim and GYE!
Kol Hakavod!
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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 21 Feb 2023 02:11 #392390

jackthejew wrote on 20 Feb 2023 18:12:
Big shoutout to @Geshmak, whose post was mentioned on the Headlines show this past week, which was about Shmiras Einayim and GYE!
Kol Hakavod!
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Link?
Hi, my name is ILH and I’m grateful for having to focus just on today. 
Easy does it... I don't need to be perfect. 
If you figured out my identity, don't be shy, come say hi! 
It takes tons of courage to fight the good fight, but we don't have to do it all alone. 
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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 21 Feb 2023 02:40 #392393

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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 21 Feb 2023 03:35 #392401

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Thx for the shout out! 
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!
What is this? We’re is this headline? I can’t check the link…
Guys the only way were really gonna get help is with H’s help so we gotta beg him for help and he sure will help us cause he wants us helped!!
CRY TO HIM!!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/387630-Powerful!#387630

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Re: We gotta get more people on to gye! 22 Feb 2023 00:17 #392438

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jackthejew wrote on 20 Feb 2023 18:12:
Big shoutout to @Geshmak, whose post was mentioned on the Headlines show this past week, which was about Shmiras Einayim and GYE!
Kol Hakavod!
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!

I think that if the people who founded and run this place would get a phone call from the people who were helped by this place, it would be such a chizuk for them to hear firsthand of the impact they made/are making on so many people. So for those of us who are brave enough, I would suggest maybe calling them up and telling them, a little bit of how you grateful you are to be on GYE. A word of encouragement goes a long way
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