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I made it to 63 days before and now I'm back 04 Jan 2022 11:31 #375498

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I made it to 63 days before in 2011 and also 150 days but I don't remember the exact days for 150 days (around 5 to 6 months) in 2012. Now I'm back in this site to help me get back to where I started to stop masturbating and watching porn... right now, just music videos are the one that gets me by surprise if I'm not careful what I watch. I need Hashem help and thank you Guardyoureyes for helping me out

Last Edit: 25 Jan 2022 11:38 by anonymous1234567.

Re: I made it to 63 days before and now I'm back 04 Jan 2022 15:02 #375504

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Anonymous1234567 wrote on 04 Jan 2022 11:31:

I made it to 63 days before in 2011 and also 150 days but I don't remember the exact days for 150 days. Now I'm back in this site to help me get back to where I started to stop masturbating and watching porn... right now, just music videos are the one that gets me by surprise if I'm not careful what I watch. I need Hashem help and thank you Guardyoureyes for helping me out

You are much better off now than when you started out.
You have many clean days that are yours to keep for ever and they should serve as a proof that you can do it again.
The main this is not to focus on the past or the future. Just take it one day at a time (or even one hour at a time if needed). With the help of Hashem and your friends at GYE you'll be able to get places that you did not dream of...

"If I am not for myself, who will be for me? But if I am only for myself, who am I? If not now, when?"
feel free to reach out @ ahavayirah@gmail.com

Re: I made it to 63 days before and now I'm back 04 Jan 2022 17:06 #375508

anonymous1234567 OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 21 Karma: 0	Thank you!

Re: I made it to 63 days before and now I'm back 04 Jan 2022 17:20 #375510

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hey, welcome! wishing you much hatzlacha in your journey! and remember, it's about changing your mindset! and there's a lot of amazing resources that can help you out! check out captain's signature he should be around here at some point! you sound like your a committed fellow put in the willpower and motivation and rock on! good luck, you can do this!

“Distancing and removing triggers is only bringing the door closer..Changing the insides and our nature is the key to get in.”

“Human connection can help every sort of struggle”

If anyone would like to reach me I’d love to help out!
anonymouslyhappy111@gmail.com

Break free the easy way using the self-talk method!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain--Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Check out this thread with packed Insight for every person at every stage!
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/1-Break-Free/376994-%E2%80%9CShtark%E2%80%9D-insight-that-may-make-you-%E2%80%9Cemotional%E2%80%9D-%29

Re: I made it to 63 days before and now I'm back 04 Jan 2022 17:26 #375511

anonymous1234567 OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 21 Karma: 0	Thank you! for the motivation it helps a lot.
	Last Edit: 04 Jan 2022 17:38 by anonymous1234567.

Re: I made it to 63 days before and now I'm back 05 Jan 2022 13:35 #375546

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Hey, welcome!
Please check out the free resources below. They're good to start with.

Hatzlocha!

In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge

Re: I made it to 63 days before and now I'm back 05 Jan 2022 14:16 #375551

anonymous1234567 OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 21 Karma: 0	I like that book battle of the generation the title sounds like a win for me since we are in 2022 and not in 2009 and so on... thank you for your help! I give it a read
	Last Edit: 05 Jan 2022 14:49 by anonymous1234567.

Re: I made it to 63 days before and now I'm back 20 Jan 2022 18:35 #376246

shtarkandemotional
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hey, how have you been?

Re: I made it to 63 days before and now I'm back 23 Jan 2022 17:27 #376361

anonymous1234567 OFFLINE Junior Boarder Posts: 21 Karma: 0	Shtarkandemotional wrote on 20 Jan 2022 18:35: hey, how have you been? Sorry I haven't replied in couple days... I have failed first time I tried in years but I'm getting back up again...
	Last Edit: 23 Jan 2022 17:50 by anonymous1234567.

Re: I made it to 63 days before and now I'm back 23 Jan 2022 21:53 #376376

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If you tried where you haven’t tried before, that’s already a win. Keep working at it, you don’t lose until you give up.

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"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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