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Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 18 Jan 2021 19:45 #361507

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wilnevergiveup wrote on 18 Jan 2021 19:25:
Boruch Hashem, I am doing really well as of late. 

In other news, we had a beautiful baby boy and I am really grateful to Hashem for this tremendous berachah. 

Please Hashem, help me keep my home pure for my new little boy and help us raise a beautiful mishpacha and help us remain kaddosh v'tahor.

Mazel Tov!!
May you always be able to share good news with us! A bunch nachas!
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Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 18 Jan 2021 20:42 #361514

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wilnevergiveup wrote on 18 Jan 2021 19:25:
Boruch Hashem, I am doing really well as of late. 

In other news, we had a beautiful baby boy and I am really grateful to Hashem for this tremendous berachah. 

Please Hashem, help me keep my home pure for my new little boy and help us raise a beautiful mishpacha and help us remain kaddosh v'tahor.

Mazal tov! May your son yearn for kedusha and truth, just like his father! 

Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 18 Jan 2021 21:01 #361515

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Mazel Tov!! Lots of Yiddish Nachas!!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


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"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."

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Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 18 Jan 2021 21:16 #361516

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Mazel tov!
Lots of Nachas!

Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 18 Jan 2021 22:32 #361522

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Mazel tov!!
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Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 18 Jan 2021 23:02 #361524

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Mazel tov!! Lots of Yoddish Nachas!! Thanks for sharing!!

Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 18 Jan 2021 23:19 #361525

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Mazel Tov, Shetizke lgadlo latora..........
"The pain after giving in is so much greater than the pain of not giving in"
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Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 19 Jan 2021 00:23 #361528

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Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 19 Jan 2021 00:43 #361531

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Such good news!

Mazel Tov!

One who has given up hope is without a G‑d.

One who sees hope in each day is already free

Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 19 Jan 2021 03:06 #361542

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wilnevergiveup wrote on 18 Jan 2021 19:25:
Boruch Hashem, I am doing really well as of late. 

In other news, we had a beautiful baby boy and I am really grateful to Hashem for this tremendous berachah. 

Please Hashem, help me keep my home pure for my new little boy and help us raise a beautiful mishpacha and help us remain kaddosh v'tahor.

Mazel Tov! May you be zoche to all the brachos given!
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Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 19 Jan 2021 14:02 #361560

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Mazel Tov!!!
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation 
https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: 
https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 19 Jan 2021 18:34 #361569

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This is really stressful because I just wrote aa whole long post and it disappeared.

Either way, Thank you guys for all the mazal tov's I really appreciate it.

Funny thing is that I just stumbled into a loophole that I would rather not have. I wasn't looking, I wasn't testing my filter, in fact I really don't want this nisayon at all. 

Why do I have to be faced with this challenge during such a special time for me? Why, I would much rather not to have stumbled upon this. I try my hardest to stay away from the temptation, why does it have to come chasing after me?

I want to be pure for Hashem after all the beracha He has given me. I want to be grateful to my wife for having our baby. I want to keep our home pure for my children (and myself). 

I DON'T WANT THIS!

Okay, now I have to make a plan.

Please Hashem, help me get through this. Please help my filter work properly. please help me not mess around until it gets fixed.

Yours truly,
Wilnevergiveup
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Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 19 Jan 2021 18:58 #361572

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wilnevergiveup wrote on 19 Jan 2021 18:34:
This is really stressful because I just wrote aa whole long post and it disappeared.

Either way, Thank you guys for all the mazal tov's I really appreciate it.

Funny thing is that I just stumbled into a loophole that I would rather not have. I wasn't looking, I wasn't testing my filter, in fact I really don't want this nisayon at all. 

Why do I have to be faced with this challenge during such a special time for me? Why, I would much rather not to have stumbled upon this. I try my hardest to stay away from the temptation, why does it have to come chasing after me?

I want to be pure for Hashem after all the beracha He has given me. I want to be grateful to my wife for having our baby. I want to keep our home pure for my children (and myself). 

I DON'T WANT THIS!

Okay, now I have to make a plan.

Please Hashem, help me get through this. Please help my filter work properly. please help me not mess around until it gets fixed.

Yours truly,
Wilnevergiveup

Hi,

Please keep us posted how you went about this, we're waiting to hear from you.

God bless, 
Last Edit: 19 Jan 2021 19:05 by willdoit.

Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 19 Jan 2021 19:50 #361575

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wilnevergiveup wrote on 19 Jan 2021 18:34:
This is really stressful because I just wrote aa whole long post and it disappeared.

Either way, Thank you guys for all the mazal tov's I really appreciate it.

Funny thing is that I just stumbled into a loophole that I would rather not have. I wasn't looking, I wasn't testing my filter, in fact I really don't want this nisayon at all. 

Why do I have to be faced with this challenge during such a special time for me? Why, I would much rather not to have stumbled upon this. I try my hardest to stay away from the temptation, why does it have to come chasing after me?

I want to be pure for Hashem after all the beracha He has given me. I want to be grateful to my wife for having our baby. I want to keep our home pure for my children (and myself). 

I DON'T WANT THIS!

Okay, now I have to make a plan.

Please Hashem, help me get through this. Please help my filter work properly. please help me not mess around until it gets fixed.

Yours truly,
Wilnevergiveup

Maybe you're doing good so He gave you a level up. 
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."

"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."

- General Grant



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Re: Am I going to suffer for the rest of my life? 19 Jan 2021 21:06 #361578

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Took care of it boruch Hashem!

Still licking my wounds but I'm still clean baruch Hashem.

Huge deal for me that I had the strength to get this taken care of.

Thank you Hashem for guarding me and answering my tefilos, I was really able to see the yad Hashem protecting me.

They say over from the Ba'al Shem Tov that before Hashem gives us something special, we are tested with a test of ka'as or taivah. This fits really nicely with what just happens as I am Iy"H making a bris soon, Hashem tested me with this huge test and I really hope I passed. Not perfect but much better than the old me, that's for sure.

Thanks guys for being there for me.
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