Welcome, Guest

Plagued with questions
(0 viewing) 
Welcome to our forum! Introduce yourself here (anonymously, of course) and get a warm welcome from the rest of the community!
  • Page:
  • 1

TOPIC: Plagued with questions 1330 Views

Plagued with questions 31 Jul 2017 23:55 #318152

  • SamSydney
  • OFFLINE
  • Fresh Boarder
  • Posts: 6
  • Karma: 1
Dear Friends,
I am plagued with questions regarding pornography. 
I currently do not watch pornography and have not for almost 2 years.
My greatest question is the following. 
Is it sinful to watch pornography if no masturbation occurs, no spilling of seed.
(I suspect that the answer is yes, it is still sinful) 
however, I wish to know why is it sinful? and how sinful is it? Which sins would I be committing as an individual if I decided to watch pornography? I wish to understand.

Thanks
Sam Sydney

Re: Plagued with questions 02 Aug 2017 21:09 #318230

  • gibbor120
  • OFFLINE
  • Platinum Boarder
  • NEVER EVER GIVE UP!
  • Posts: 5251
  • Karma: 166
Welcome!  You have come to the right place.  I have some questions of my own.  Why do you feel you need pornography?  Do you feel that you will be happier?  Do you think that you will just watch occationally?  You sound like you are desperately trying to find a rationalization to watch.  I get it.  I wish I could rationalize it too.  But I cannot.  For it will take over my life and hurt me, my wife, and my family.  Once I start, I cannot stop.  It takes over my life.  Even if it was muttar, I could not do it.  I cannot afford it.  Can you?

Check out the handbook and keep posting.  We are here for you brother.  We know exactly what you are going through.

Re: Plagued with questions 02 Aug 2017 21:29 #318233

  • Shivisi_Hashem
  • Current streak: 158 days
  • OFFLINE
  • Platinum Boarder
  • Posts: 686
  • Karma: 31
SamSydney wrote on 31 Jul 2017 23:55:
Dear Friends,
I am plagued with questions regarding pornography. 
I currently do not watch pornography and have not for almost 2 years.
My greatest question is the following. 
Is it sinful to watch pornography if no masturbation occurs, no spilling of seed.
(I suspect that the answer is yes, it is still sinful) 
however, I wish to know why is it sinful? and how sinful is it? Which sins would I be committing as an individual if I decided to watch pornography? I wish to understand.

Thanks
Sam Sydney

ולא תתרו אחרי לבבכם ואחרי עיניכם

My email:jacdoja@gmail.com
My threads: my long נסיעה of almost 30 years ~ My Book of Business ~ My Upcoming Dilemma

להטות לבבנו אליו ללכת בכל דרכיו ולשמר מצותיו וחקיו ומשפטיו אשר צוה את אבתינו
כי עיקר מציאות האדם בעה"ז הוא רק לקיים מצות ולעמד בניסיון,  והנאות העולם אין ראוי שיהו לו אלא לעזר ולסיוע בלבד לשיהיה לו נחת רוח ויישוב הדעת למען יוכל לפנות לבו אל העבודה הזאת מסילת ישרים

Re: Plagued with questions 02 Aug 2017 21:44 #318235

  • Eyeglasses
  • OFFLINE
  • Expert Boarder
  • Posts: 119
  • Karma: 2
Sin or not, it will certainly drive you crazy.
Not worth it.

Re: Plagued with questions 02 Aug 2017 22:38 #318238

  • SamSydney
  • OFFLINE
  • Fresh Boarder
  • Posts: 6
  • Karma: 1
Thank you for strengthening me.

I believe that masturbation is an empty action that does not satisfy.

Furthermore, I remind myself that all the pleasures in the world are but a drop in the ocean in comparison to the spiritual world.

This is an amazing community and an amazing website. Thank you all.
  • Page:
  • 1
Time to create page: 0.47 seconds

Are you sure?

Yes