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Re: Bego 05 May 2022 04:42 #380417

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Sapy wrote on 04 May 2022 23:07:
I L A P A M !!!!

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Re: Bego 05 May 2022 14:32 #380428

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wilnevergiveup wrote on 05 May 2022 04:42:

Sapy wrote on 04 May 2022 23:07:
I L A P A M !!!!

I look at Parsha and Meforshim?

haha you made my day 
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Re: Bego 05 May 2022 14:47 #380429

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i still cant find myself taklting THE WORD out, whenever i talk to someone about this i'll always say, being together instead sex, or watching shmutz instead of porn, or doing some not so good stuff instead of masterbating
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Re: Bego 05 May 2022 15:44 #380432

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Ybird wrote on 05 May 2022 14:47:
i still cant find myself taklting THE WORD out, whenever i talk to someone about this i'll always say, being together instead sex, or watching shmutz instead of porn, or doing some not so good stuff instead of masterbating

My personal feeling is that there are differences. When it's positive, I think a bit of loshon noki is good. You're right we don't need to descend to the street.

BUT if we are on the street and doing "bad stuff" then i feel people hide. The say P & M as that softens the blow of what theyve done and makes them feel better. That might work for some? But I prefer to know what I've done wrong as without it, we can't do better. 
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Re: Bego 05 May 2022 15:56 #380435

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bego wrote on 05 May 2022 15:44:

Ybird wrote on 05 May 2022 14:47:
i still cant find myself taklting THE WORD out, whenever i talk to someone about this i'll always say, being together instead sex, or watching shmutz instead of porn, or doing some not so good stuff instead of masterbating

My personal feeling is that there are differences. When it's positive, I think a bit of loshon noki is good. You're right we don't need to descend to the street.

BUT if we are on the street and doing "bad stuff" then i feel people hide. The say P & M as that softens the blow of what theyve done and makes them feel better. That might work for some? But I prefer to know what I've done wrong as without it, we can't do better. 

my opinion is that if they can't spell masturbate correctly (which seems to be a membership prerequisite in order to join gye), better just say m. just imagine what would be if they'd need to spell out pornography or bestiality or sexsomnia or retrograde ejaculation or heaven forbid: priapism or paraphilia!
i'm all about that (substantial) bass, no trouble ....

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Re: Bego 05 May 2022 16:17 #380436

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Trouble wrote on 05 May 2022 15:56:

bego wrote on 05 May 2022 15:44:

Ybird wrote on 05 May 2022 14:47:
i still cant find myself taklting THE WORD out, whenever i talk to someone about this i'll always say, being together instead sex, or watching shmutz instead of porn, or doing some not so good stuff instead of masterbating

My personal feeling is that there are differences. When it's positive, I think a bit of loshon noki is good. You're right we don't need to descend to the street.

BUT if we are on the street and doing "bad stuff" then i feel people hide. The say P & M as that softens the blow of what theyve done and makes them feel better. That might work for some? But I prefer to know what I've done wrong as without it, we can't do better. 

my opinion is that if they can't spell masturbate correctly (which seems to be a membership prerequisite in order to join gye), better just say m. just imagine what would be if they'd need to spell out pornography or bestiality or sexsomnia or retrograde ejaculation or heaven forbid: priapism or paraphilia!

I like this game! What about adolescence or penile disfunction? 
I came.
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I conquered.
I failed. 
Too much I. 

Re: Bego 05 May 2022 16:19 #380437

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Trouble wrote on 05 May 2022 15:56:

bego wrote on 05 May 2022 15:44:

Ybird wrote on 05 May 2022 14:47:
i still cant find myself taklting THE WORD out, whenever i talk to someone about this i'll always say, being together instead sex, or watching shmutz instead of porn, or doing some not so good stuff instead of masterbating

My personal feeling is that there are differences. When it's positive, I think a bit of loshon noki is good. You're right we don't need to descend to the street.

BUT if we are on the street and doing "bad stuff" then i feel people hide. The say P & M as that softens the blow of what theyve done and makes them feel better. That might work for some? But I prefer to know what I've done wrong as without it, we can't do better. 

my opinion is that if they can't spell masturbate correctly (which seems to be a membership prerequisite in order to join gye), better just say m. just imagine what would be if they'd need to spell out pornography or bestiality or sexsomnia or retrograde ejaculation or heaven forbid: priapism or paraphilia!

I'm just glad there are no capital letters in porn or masturbation. Otherwise, Trouble would be in trouble...

Re: Bego 05 May 2022 16:21 #380438

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bego wrote on 05 May 2022 16:17:

Trouble wrote on 05 May 2022 15:56:

bego wrote on 05 May 2022 15:44:

Ybird wrote on 05 May 2022 14:47:
i still cant find myself taklting THE WORD out, whenever i talk to someone about this i'll always say, being together instead sex, or watching shmutz instead of porn, or doing some not so good stuff instead of masterbating

My personal feeling is that there are differences. When it's positive, I think a bit of loshon noki is good. You're right we don't need to descend to the street.

BUT if we are on the street and doing "bad stuff" then i feel people hide. The say P & M as that softens the blow of what theyve done and makes them feel better. That might work for some? But I prefer to know what I've done wrong as without it, we can't do better. 

my opinion is that if they can't spell masturbate correctly (which seems to be a membership prerequisite in order to join gye), better just say m. just imagine what would be if they'd need to spell out pornography or bestiality or sexsomnia or retrograde ejaculation or heaven forbid: priapism or paraphilia!

I like this game! What about adolescence or penile disfunction? 

i actually was trying to list only those disorders which are kinda fun; although i did omit supernumerary sex organs.
i'm all about that (substantial) bass, no trouble ....

if you're looking for trouble, you can email me @trouble69gye@outlook.com

Re: Bego 05 May 2022 16:22 #380439

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bego wrote on 05 May 2022 15:44:

Ybird wrote on 05 May 2022 14:47:
i still cant find myself taklting THE WORD out, whenever i talk to someone about this i'll always say, being together instead sex, or watching shmutz instead of porn, or doing some not so good stuff instead of masterbating

My personal feeling is that there are differences. When it's positive, I think a bit of loshon noki is good. You're right we don't need to descend to the street.

BUT if we are on the street and doing "bad stuff" then i feel people hide. The say P & M as that softens the blow of what theyve done and makes them feel better. That might work for some? But I prefer to know what I've done wrong as without it, we can't do better. 

My experience has been the same. I value respectful language but I have found that until I was able to say in clear words what my struggles really are I am not able to address them!

thanks for bringing this up...

Re: Bego 05 May 2022 16:26 #380440

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i actually was trying to list only those disorders which are kinda fun; although i did omit supernumerary sex organs.

Oh, so I guess I was just playing by myself, which is, I guess, better than playing with myself. 
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Re: Bego 05 May 2022 16:29 #380441

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My experience has been the same. I value respectful language but I have found that until I was able to say in clear words what my struggles really are I am not able to address them!

thanks for bringing this up...

I have a recollection it was that source of all goodness on GYE (just because I know that will annoy him  ) Cordnoy who first brought this to my attention.
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Re: Bego 05 May 2022 17:28 #380445

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Trouble wrote on 05 May 2022 15:56:

bego wrote on 05 May 2022 15:44:

Ybird wrote on 05 May 2022 14:47:
i still cant find myself taklting THE WORD out, whenever i talk to someone about this i'll always say, being together instead sex, or watching shmutz instead of porn, or doing some not so good stuff instead of masterbating

My personal feeling is that there are differences. When it's positive, I think a bit of loshon noki is good. You're right we don't need to descend to the street.

BUT if we are on the street and doing "bad stuff" then i feel people hide. The say P & M as that softens the blow of what theyve done and makes them feel better. That might work for some? But I prefer to know what I've done wrong as without it, we can't do better. 

my opinion is that if they can't spell masturbate correctly (which seems to be a membership prerequisite in order to join gye), better just say m. just imagine what would be if they'd need to spell out pornography or bestiality or sexsomnia or retrograde ejaculation or heaven forbid: priapism or paraphilia!

are you a scientist or something?
how to you know that? i'm in big trouble
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Re: Bego 05 May 2022 21:08 #380457

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bego wrote on 05 May 2022 16:17:

Trouble wrote on 05 May 2022 15:56:

bego wrote on 05 May 2022 15:44:

Ybird wrote on 05 May 2022 14:47:
i still cant find myself taklting THE WORD out, whenever i talk to someone about this i'll always say, being together instead sex, or watching shmutz instead of porn, or doing some not so good stuff instead of masterbating

My personal feeling is that there are differences. When it's positive, I think a bit of loshon noki is good. You're right we don't need to descend to the street.

BUT if we are on the street and doing "bad stuff" then i feel people hide. The say P & M as that softens the blow of what theyve done and makes them feel better. That might work for some? But I prefer to know what I've done wrong as without it, we can't do better. 

my opinion is that if they can't spell masturbate correctly (which seems to be a membership prerequisite in order to join gye), better just say m. just imagine what would be if they'd need to spell out pornography or bestiality or sexsomnia or retrograde ejaculation or heaven forbid: priapism or paraphilia!

I like this game! What about adolescence or penile disfunction? 

Dysfunction
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Re: Bego 06 May 2022 11:29 #380474

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The following comment is based on my own history and complete inability, when i joined GYE, to be comfortable discussing and writing about my struggles.

Obviously one should generally be sensitive to use proper language as we see countless times in Chazal, and as we have seen has been the derech of erliche yidden. However, one would not expect a urologist to not say the word penis etc. He deals with clinical issues that are real that need to be addressed and healed. We come here to GYE for healing. For many of us, the words  pornography, masturbation, sex, SSA, etc. represented a monster of sorts - something we had to hide from. By writing m***, p***, s**, and the like, we are continuing an unhealthy habit. One should be able to calmly write and say all clinical terminology regarding this battle. If one can't, he should find out from someone else how to remove the panic/fear, and learn to speak about all this stuff in a choshuve way.  On the other hand, one should definitely avoid street terminology about these things, because usually that can be somewhat triggering. 
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Re: Bego 06 May 2022 22:50 #380496

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Hashem Help Me wrote on 06 May 2022 11:29:
The following comment is based on my own history and complete inability, when i joined GYE, to be comfortable discussing and writing about my struggles.

Obviously one should generally be sensitive to use proper language as we see countless times in Chazal, and as we have seen has been the derech of erliche yidden. However, one would not expect a urologist to not say the word penis etc. He deals with clinical issues that are real that need to be addressed and healed. We come here to GYE for healing. For many of us, the words  pornography, masturbation, sex, SSA, etc. represented a monster of sorts - something we had to hide from. By writing m***, p***, s**, and the like, we are continuing an unhealthy habit. One should be able to calmly write and say all clinical terminology regarding this battle. If one can't, he should find out from someone else how to remove the panic/fear, and learn to speak about all this stuff in a choshuve way.  On the other hand, one should definitely avoid street terminology about these things, because usually that can be somewhat triggering. 

Don't think anyone was promoting street language, but i may have misunderstood 
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