Rabbi Twerski explains ODAAT.

Can you not plan for the future? Of course. But in two ways.

Worrying about a mark of a test you wrote is violating ODAAT. There's NOTHING you can do about that mark now. The wait will just drain you. So stop it!

Purchasing insurance is living ODAAT. Exercising, preparing for a marathon... but keep in mind the challenge is NOW, not months down the line. Small nisyonos that build true character.

Hey Friends

21 Days = 3 Weeks, some sort of Chazoko:joy:.

But wont joy let distract me, going on strong.

BTW got a new line in my Signature Like?

Like the new avatar

Note to Cords: It's not a Corvette  

Please note: I read in this week's news that all giraffes are expected to disappear within the next few years. So make sure to be in recovery before that happens.

Had an issue bout my Giraffe in mini 196, see my signature. so i changed it.

will Succeed Beh wrote on 21 Dec 2016 18:30:

I thought they were joking. Did the comments bother you?

Hi Brothers, A Gut Voch & A Freilichen Chanuka

​How was the first Chanuka Lights by you?

By me it was amazing B''h, there was this Clean feeling.... sitting by the candles connecting to myself and to Hashem, trying to keep my little boy occupied  at the same time, wonderful family time and wonderful Hashem time!!!

This Shabbes the old drives started to come up, in forms of old pictures and videos, B''h managed most times to steer my thoughts to other places, the thing that kept me in bay not to go in to the circles {i do want - no i dont want ....} was the amazing TaPHSiC Method program.

It was just by the Chanuka Lecht i realised why the YH went on to such an assault today! It was the last day chance to get me before Chanuka, imagine how i would of felt if i would of fallen after after working nearly a whole month on Clean Kislev Project - Lekoved Chanuka, just to fall 1 day before chanuka!!!!!!!!!
i would have been Broke! (dont worry i dont think that the YH forgot me... he is still at work:imp:)

So somewhere this week i'll have to renew my Shvua, as it is expiring on Rosh Chodesh Shevat.

As a follow up on the discussion about 1st look - 2nd look @ a women.

I saw an amazing shiur by Harav Zamir Cohen, says: a dressed women - look is ok, Iyun look hard/analyse is forbidden; undressed women - should not look at all.

Here is the link for the shiur.

will Succeed Beh wrote on 26 Dec 2016 16:23:

Can you explain what "look is ok" means please?

Ok so now a small update

29 days! B''H passed 4 weeks, Getting to a month tomorrow BE''H.

Got a new signature line!
Song by: Menachem Moskowitz; Album: Shmo Shel Melech
Composed by: Meshilem Greenberger.

English translation - for those who dont understand Yidish

Going off for the weekend. will have no access to the net.

Will be missing you all, but i think ill enjoy the quiet, without all the other things included in the web package.

Good Shabbes Chanuka.

I'v been struggling the past week with non Jewish movies, that keeps me setting back, didn’t fall but it can bring close.

So I was thinking of making a TaPHSiC Shvua on not watching non Jewish movies, I asked my Mentor what he thinks about it, he said he thinks it’s a good idea, but its best I should ask people inside GYE what they think about it.

So what do you think about it?

will Succeed Beh wrote on 09 Jan 2017 14:23:

Step zero is to stop, so if that's what you need, go for it. Realize though that it's not gonna fix the problem; it might, however, give you the clear mind to analyze the problem.

B'hatzlachah

So what's Jewish movies? Steven Speilberg? Ben Stiller, Adam Sandler?

Good to see you back! Was missing you, same-day buddy