what do you mean i do call in allot.

Good. Has it been helping?

yes defiantly it has i can relate to others and know that others have the same issues i have so in that regards it is helping me.

it's been a really long time since i posted on my thread i just want to let everyone know i have been doing well and that i have not falling in a about 2 moths i just started the 90 day chart i did not know about it up until yesterday and i have one day clean on it and hope to be able to continue that streak and keep staying strong and staying clean. Just want to let everyone know thanks for all your support you have giving me i am really appreciative of that thanks so much hope people reply back to me thank you!

shmulke wrote:



Hey Shmulke keep it goin'.

As I can recall I remember having a similar issue with boredom, I was trying to rack my brain trying to figure out what I can do with my time.

Land"t I think the issue is that when one has lust, nothing else interests him there is nothing else in the world that will satisfy his boredom other than acting out.

I think the best idea is in this situation is first to be clean for a while and 'then' try to figure out what hobby or whatever to do throughout the day.

There is a chazal that states הבטלה מביאה לידי זימה.

Obviously prayer is key to all, we should all pray to not be bored and pray to overcome this Y"H.

Chazak v'emutz!!!

shmulke wrote:


That's great news.

Any special way that you accomplished that?

Please share.

well i just started talking and writing to people on gye and typing just on my own about things which helps me get my own emotions out and i look back at those things and say what can i accomplish so from negativity and acting out and can work on myself and create a positive environment for myself!

shmulke wrote:


Bh
Keep it up!

thanks!