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Re: Help needed 29 Jun 2015 01:18 #258000

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Some may argue but I agree!

Re: Help needed 29 Jun 2015 15:20 #258051

We are with you Bro6545!

Re: Help needed 29 Jun 2015 17:21 #258066

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I'm here
Much Hatzlacha!

My Threads:
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Don't slip it hurts
Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: Help needed 02 Jul 2015 13:49 #258442

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DAY #10!

Re: Help needed 02 Jul 2015 20:57 #258500

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Great bro!
keep on trucking One Day At A Time, may your journey be crowned with success.
הסיבה שיש דברים קשים העוברים עליך היא בגלל שהאדם חושב כי "אני עומד" שהוא מנהל הכל,
ברגע שיתן הכנעה כי השי"ת מנהיג הכל אז כבר אפשר להתמודד עם הקשיים. שמעתי מאדם גדול

If life is a LEMON make LEMONADE

Thank You Hashem for every moment of Sobriety!

Re: Help needed 03 Jul 2015 00:01 #258527

6545 wrote:
DAY #10!


Fantastic!

Re: Help needed 05 Jul 2015 14:37 #258700

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6545 wrote:
DAY #10!


(Pidaini are you here?) YOOOOOOOOOOOHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!

KOMT!!!!

Re: Help needed 05 Jul 2015 22:41 #258743

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Nice!!! Please keep sharing. Especially the good news!
"To suffer in silence is to suffer alone.
To suffer alone...........well, no one should have to do that."

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guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/251355-Chizuk?limit=15&start=45

Re: Help needed 06 Jul 2015 16:49 #258794

Wow, that is some heavy heavy issues. I just read through the whole post. I too have jsut started posting and came "out" with a very troubling habit as well. As one who has similar issues, I truly feel for you. Just want to know that your posts helped me, to read them, and that it sounds like you are making some serious progress towards stopping your stuff. May Hashem help you in your struggle. We we all succeed in our struggles and achieve complete success.

What separates us from the rest of the world is that we know these are aveiros that need to be stopped, we feel guilty about them, and are taking steps to change our lives.

Me K'amcha Yisroel.

Re: Help needed 06 Jul 2015 16:57 #258796

I agree. This will not go unrevealed. honestly, women are not stupid, in fact they are very smart. I would venture to say that unless your wife is totally and completely naive, she knows something is going on, she just probably has no idea of the seriousness of it. And the fact that you are carrying on with a neighbor who is friends with your wife, man, that is stressful stuff for anyone to deal with. You must be dying from the stress. Look, I can imagine how hard it is to resist when these women are literally throwing themselves at you. Obviously, the women you are carrying on with have issues as well, as or more serious than yours. Sounds like in the later threads that you have broken off all contact, that is a great thing. Kepp strong achi, and daven for strength and forgiveness. Hashem will come thorough for you if you want and let him. Thank you for opening up on the forum, it helped me tremendously to see othgers struggling with many of the same issues...

Re: Help needed 06 Jul 2015 17:45 #258800

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I just want to let you know that there are many religious people in SA (and I'm sure not in SA) who are not Jewish and view this as a sin.
Much Hatzlacha!

My Threads:
Glad to be here
Don't slip it hurts
Lions & Tigers & Internet, Oh My!

--"ולא המדרש עיקר, אלא המעשה"
--"To promise not to do a thing is the surest way in the world to make a body want to go and do that very thing." Mark Twain
--"If, when you honestly want to, you find you cannot quit entirely, or if when drinking (or lusting), you have little control over the amount you take, you are probably alcoholic (or sexaholic)." AA Big Book P. 45. Parenthesis added.
--You hit rock bottom when you decide to stop digging.

Re: Help needed 22 Jul 2015 19:19 #260091

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6545 wrote:
DAY #10!


Hi brother, how are you doing? Share with us your success, we all care for you and hope you are still trucking along, KOMT - KOP.
הסיבה שיש דברים קשים העוברים עליך היא בגלל שהאדם חושב כי "אני עומד" שהוא מנהל הכל,
ברגע שיתן הכנעה כי השי"ת מנהיג הכל אז כבר אפשר להתמודד עם הקשיים. שמעתי מאדם גדול

If life is a LEMON make LEMONADE

Thank You Hashem for every moment of Sobriety!

Re: Help needed 22 Jul 2015 19:31 #260093

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Hey bro you asked on the right day I'm still staying strong today is day #30 sober sober sobh hashem should forgive me for my coast and give me strength for my future

Re: Help needed 22 Jul 2015 21:46 #260112

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Brother we are amazed and proud of you, may you have the strength to continue being sober for your entire life.

Chazak VeEmatz!
הסיבה שיש דברים קשים העוברים עליך היא בגלל שהאדם חושב כי "אני עומד" שהוא מנהל הכל,
ברגע שיתן הכנעה כי השי"ת מנהיג הכל אז כבר אפשר להתמודד עם הקשיים. שמעתי מאדם גדול

If life is a LEMON make LEMONADE

Thank You Hashem for every moment of Sobriety!

Re: Help needed 23 Jul 2015 03:50 #260164

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Thank you and all of you for supporting me I wouldn't be able to pull it through without the push and without others saying it's impossible both were my help and strength what an amazing family my the zechis stand for you and your family and all of klal yisroel and hashem should already put an end to all our struggles
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