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need help 14 Sep 2014 23:13 #239541

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i need help ive tried so many times keep on falling back also have issues with depression

Re: need help 14 Sep 2014 23:40 #239545

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Welcome!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Could your issues with depression stem from you being too hard on yourself, having unrealistic expectations and not letting yourself progress slowly? Cause thats the way it is for me!


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Re: need help 14 Sep 2014 23:52 #239547

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Re: need help 15 Sep 2014 00:31 #239550

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WELCOME TOV MEOD (indeed)!!!

join the club. we are all in the same boat. the oilam here is an amazing bunch of guys. everyone understands, cares, helps and full of fun.

so jump into the action. looking forward to seeing you around!!!

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Re: need help 15 Sep 2014 07:48 #239569

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Welcome!
tovmeod wrote:
i need help ive tried so many times keep on falling back also have issues with depression

"also" makes it sounds like they are two unrelated issues.

They may be more closely connected than you realize.

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Re: need help 15 Sep 2014 16:07 #239578

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Welcome!!

It took me a while to realize that even with this "problem" I am still tovmeod, I am a good man, I am not evil or bad, I am just more or less sick!

Don't be a stranger, tell us more about your struggles, what you've tried, and what your plan is for the future based on what didn't work!!

and certainly Keep On Trucking!!
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Re: need help 15 Sep 2014 19:32 #239595

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thanks so much for the replys it makes me feel im not alone
im now day 4 but my eyes and mind keep lusting its so hard i have alot mood swings happy sad depressed ...

Re: need help 15 Sep 2014 20:36 #239597

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WELCOME! When you say "issues with depression", do you mean that you have been diagnosed with depression, or that is the way you feel? Have you gotten proffesional help?

Stick around. There's lots of good stuff to learn here, and a fair amount of goofing off as well. You may want to check out "the depressed persons chill spot".

Re: need help 15 Sep 2014 21:47 #239607

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Welcome to GYE!

Can you be a bit more detailed about what you're going through?
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