tryintoshteig: thank you

it looks like this morning was a slow day by you

I understand your feelings but when your wife knows, it seems like at least youre in the ballpark with her
sometimes she will be suspicious, sometimes supportive, at times angry, and other times helpful

ultimately she is your wife and probably wants to stay that way
she will help you to some extent

again, if the wife doesn't know, telling her can be extremely dangerous

bottom line, I understand what youre sayin' I was merely suggestin'

thanks