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Re: Dms1234's story 11 Jan 2015 09:52 #246933

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Nesiah tovah!
b'hatzlachah
send regards
youre da man!
breath deeply.
send your number please.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
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GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

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Re: Dms1234's story 11 Jan 2015 09:57 #246936

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Have a safe trip, and Hatzlacha in Yeshiva.

KIT & KOMT!!!
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

And every day that you want to waste, that you want to waste, you can
And every day that you want to wake up, that you want to wake, you can
And every day that you want to change, that you want to change, yeah
I'll help you see it through...



My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Re: Dms1234's story 11 Jan 2015 11:14 #246941

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I wish you lots of Hatzlachah!!!!

May your trip be as exciting and meaningful as you want it to be.

KUTGW and KOMT!!!!

Re: Dms1234's story 11 Jan 2015 20:30 #246954

Hatzlacha & shteig away in all holy aspects.

MT

Re: Dms1234's story 12 Jan 2015 22:18 #247060

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Keep us posted from time to time. Send a message through a fellow GYEr if you can't do it yourself.

Wishing you the best!

Re: Dms1234's story 15 Jan 2015 17:41 #247235

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Wishing you the best of everything, DMS! !

Re: Dms1234's story 22 Jan 2015 20:35 #247527

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Hey everyone!

Israel is great! Yeshiva is great, so are the bachurim and the Rabbis. Life is really good. I met up with some Gyers. We are hoping to meet up about every week. There a lot of attractive girls. Im even more attracted because they are frum. Im trying to breathe and take one step at a time.

It don't have internet often and i actually like that. Its nice not having internet wherever i go. Email is also scarce but i do have an Israeli phone. You can email me for my number and i would love to talk to you! dms1234ongye@gmail.com.

BH, a skeptical and I finished a project for GYE with help from many of the elite gyers on this site. We finished! The project is a Frequently Asked Questions by GYE Members. If you have any questions or comments please email one of us. You can go the FAQ here: guardyoureyes.com/breakingfree/faq

Life is great!
I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com

My name is Daniel, I go to face to face meetings and I work the 12 steps with a sponsor. 

Re: Dms1234's story 25 Jan 2015 08:05 #247598

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Re: Dms1234's story 13 Feb 2015 12:31 #248615

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Hi everyone!

I didn't realize that i wouldn't be able to go on GYE so little but unfortunately it is a reality! But thats okay i have been meeting up with a lot of gyers and hopefully every week we will have oink. Israel is incredible as always. It is great to be back and learning is going really well! BH. I am surprised how much addiction/masturbation/porn/girls come up in the Yeshiva. It is quite amazing. BH i am doing well. Woman especially frum ones are really attractive here but I'm trying to take it one girl at a time and remember that this isn't good for me. I take a nice deep breath and ask Hashem for help. When i relax, it really helps me continue what i need to do at that precise moment and refrain from continuing down the rabbit hole.

If you would like to meet with me you can email me. I would love to meet up. If you want to call me i do have calling to outside Israel. You can email me for my number.

One last thing: i realized how much I can grow when i am clean especially with learning. I try not to be complacent and forget about my problems but when i concentrate on what i am supposed to be concentrating on, with a clear head, life is truly different and remarkably fulfilling. Its also been incredible not being on the computer all day, even if its just for good things. I have my computer for very limited time during the week and i can actually accomplish more than being on there for large amounts of time!

Good shabbos!
I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com

My name is Daniel, I go to face to face meetings and I work the 12 steps with a sponsor. 

Re: Dms1234's story 15 Feb 2015 06:33 #248668

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Dms great to hear from you!!!

I sent you a email with my number so you can reach me and we could even meet up. I was asking the guys if they heard from you and they all said your doing great b"h!!!

Keep up the good work and enjoy the shtieging!!!

Re: Dms1234's story 05 Mar 2015 14:48 #249961

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A quick Hi! Israel is great! Meeting/talking with fellow GYE'ers. BH doing well but i need to breathe more and appreciate my life more. BH I am alive and well.

Afreilichin Purim!
I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com

My name is Daniel, I go to face to face meetings and I work the 12 steps with a sponsor. 

Re: Dms1234's story 17 May 2015 17:25 #254907

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Noticed this:

It takes your "breathe" technique to another level.
Especially after our chat the other day....

b'hatzlachah

I have a technique I made up recently that has been helping me A LOT. I want to share it with you. It's called B.E.L.I.E.F.

WHEN SOMETHING COMES MY WAY-INSTEAD OF GOING TO MY ADDICTION OR SOMETHING ELSE I GO TO:

B-BREATHE. Take DEEEEP breathe.
E- "Everything is from Hashem" say it 100 times. Over and over again. I calm myself down. Tell myself Hashemloves me, it will be alright and this challenge was handput downright here for me by G-d himself and it is from him and no one else.
L- LIVE. Live my emotions. Let myself cry. Be angry. Be scared. Kick something. Throw my pillow. Vent. GET IT OUT.
I- Indulge in myself. Comfort myself and tell myself why it is okay. VALIDATE my own feelings so I can...
E- Evaluate. Where do I go next? Now that I'm calm I canfigure out where I want to go and...
F- Forget. Let go of the mistake.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.

Re: Dms1234's story 27 Jul 2015 21:09 #260372

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Just sayin' hi
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?

Re: Dms1234's story 27 Jul 2015 23:30 #260391

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TehillimZugger wrote:
DMS1234's story 145 New Replies...

Just sayin' hi


Just cross the street.
My email: thenewme613@hotmail.com
My threads:
GYE Handbook | Gibbor's Insights | GYE FAQ - Thanks Skep and DMS123456789 White Book | Big Book (Alcoholics Anonymous)

If one gives up at the first sign of a struggle, he is really not ready to be successful."
"Tryin' and doin' are two different thin's - tryin' is hopin'; doin' is succeedin'.
"The right thin' to do and the hard thin' to do are usually the same."


Disclaimer: I am not a cheerleader; B"H, there are many on the site. I am here to change myself, and with God's help, by some mistake, I might even help change others.

MY POSTS ARE NOT WRITTEN AS A MODERATOR UNLESS EXPLICITLY STATED.

Re: Dms1234's story 08 Oct 2015 18:46 #265341

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Just saying hi

HI!
I am happy to speak on the phone. Please email me at dms1234ongye@gmail.com

My name is Daniel, I go to face to face meetings and I work the 12 steps with a sponsor. 
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