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Re: Good intentions 09 Sep 2014 19:52 #239182

Parsha Perception

In this week’s Parsha (Ki Savo) there are two pieces of Rashi (in the same posuk, 26,16) that seem to contradict each other:

היום הזה ה' אלהיך מצוך, בכל יום יהיו בעיניך חדשים כאילו בו ביום נצטוית עליהם:

(This day Hashem your G-d commands you - every day it should be new in your eyes as if that day you were commanded.)

ושמרת ועשית אותם, בת קול מברכתו הבאת בכורים היום תשנה לשנה הבאה:

(And you shall heed and do them - a heavenly voice blesses him, “You brought bikurim today, may you repeat next year”.)

The first piece implies that we are talking about general mitzvos that need to be done on a daily basis. The second piece implies that we are talking about bikurim which is a yearly ritual.

So how does this reconcile?

I would like to suggest the following interpretation: The first piece refers to our avoda. We must serve Hashem one day at a time, looking at each day as if it’s our first day. The second piece refers to Hashem’s (daily) promise, “You started fresh today (as bikurim signifies), may you merit to see yourself coasting along next year, a day at a time.

Amen!

MT

Re: Good intentions 09 Sep 2014 19:55 #239185

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Machshovo Tova wrote:
Parsha Perception

In this week’s Parsha (Ki Savo) there are two pieces of Rashi (in the same posuk, 26,16) that seem to contradict each other:


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Re: Good intentions 10 Sep 2014 09:06 #239266

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Machshovo Tova wrote:
A Great Strategy Against the YH

There is a piece in Mesilas Yeshorim (chapter 13) that relates to this week's parsha and is worth repeating:

Our sages teach us regarding lust, that one who sees a degraded Sotah should stay away from wine. Note that this is a great strategy for a person, so that he may save himself from his evil inclination. For when one is in the throes of the sin, it is difficult for him to control and subdue his desires. Therefore, when he is still far from the sin he needs to continue keeping himself at a safe distance. This way, it will be harder for the YH to get him close to the sinful act.

Hatzlacha / Shabbat Shalom / Gut Chodesh

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All beautiful. Wine is mutar, no?

OK. So if anyone here is serious about putting this Torah eitzoh into action, let's please have it right here:

Can anyone list a couple of real things that they have been regularly staying away from even though they are essentially mutar (or at least 'not that bad'), for the sake of their staying clean?
"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same."

Re: Good intentions 10 Sep 2014 18:13 #239289

Following is a (partial) list of thing I have been regularly staying away from be"H even though they are essentially mutar:

1. I do not use the internet unless it is absolutely necessary , e.g. no news, entertainment, etc.
2. I do not use a phone/gadget that can access triggering images.
3. I do not read secular newspapers or magazines that may have triggering images.
4. I do not touch myself from the waist to the knees unless absolutely necessary.
5. I do not watch movies, even clean ones.
6. Etc.

And B"H it helps my staying clean.

MT

Re: Good intentions 10 Sep 2014 18:16 #239290

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amazing will power

but be careful, as long as there is a possibility to go wrong
even if you absolutely dont want to
you are still in the danger zone
be wise and install a proper foolproof filter
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: Good intentions 10 Sep 2014 18:30 #239292

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Mr. Shmeichel,

Please identify who you are respondin' to.
And if you're talkin' to Reb Machshovo Tova ha-Zeidy she'b'GYE, kindly show some more respect please.
He can teach you, I and others a thing or two.
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Re: Good intentions 10 Sep 2014 18:32 #239293

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you are 100% right
i apologize

i have'nt been here for a few years

but i am still smiling
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: Good intentions 10 Sep 2014 18:35 #239295

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no problem
keep smilin'
I wasn't here yet when you were here last.
Why would you tell M"T that he needs a filter?
I have a kasha on your first post on a different thread, but I will hold off.

b'hatzlachah
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Re: Good intentions 10 Sep 2014 18:53 #239300

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I do the same as M Tova in points 1,3, 5.
i told my wife not long ago that i want to go just to such and such restaurant that the waiters are all males. ( i reside in E.Yisrael ).( i know you can argue about it )
i stop altogether listening to any Goishe music even without words. ( so far classical music excluded ).
i am starting to develop a new addiction though which is GYE Forums --NO JOKE--
i learned a lot but i have to learn to choose between them, i spend hours in the computer only reading forums . its a problem , B"H a healthy one.

Re: Good intentions 10 Sep 2014 18:53 #239301

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i am hungarian not romanian
and in chungarry we speak strait language
sorry
should i delete my first post?
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: Good intentions 10 Sep 2014 18:57 #239302

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Shmeichel wrote:
i am hungarian not romanian
and in chungarry we speak strait language
sorry
should i delete my first post?


Mr. Shmeichel....
I believe you are respondin' to me, but from what I wrote in a different thread.
It is gettin' kinda confusin'.
you can use the quote button, located on the bottom right of the postin' box.
I don't see a reason to delete any of your posts.

and regardin' straight language, just ask what you don't understand.

thanks
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Re: Good intentions 10 Sep 2014 19:07 #239304

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Machshovo Tova wrote:
Following is a (partial) list of thing I have been regularly staying away from be"H even though they are essentially mutar:

1. I do not use the internet unless it is absolutely necessary , e.g. no news, entertainment, etc.
2. I do not use a phone/gadget that can access triggering images.
3. I do not read secular newspapers or magazines that may have triggering images.
4. I do not touch myself from the waist to the knees unless absolutely necessary.
5. I do not watch movies, even clean ones.
6. Etc.

And B"H it helps my staying clean.

MT

excellent!
sorry for interrupting before
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: Good intentions 10 Sep 2014 19:36 #239310

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Welcome back Shmeichel!
Glad to see your teeth are holding up.

Re: Good intentions 10 Sep 2014 20:24 #239320

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Wecome back! How have you been?

Re: Good intentions 11 Sep 2014 00:25 #239348

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hi boys
nice to see you
i am b"h fine since
came a long way with all your help
how are you doing ???
r u still shtalzemfeegen, woodfording, possumming?
or now its a complete new theme?
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!
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