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Re: Personal recovery plan 26 Jan 2012 14:45 #131796

gibbor120 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Posts: 5251 Karma: 166	obormottel wrote on 26 Jan 2012 00:03: oh, I'm hosting....$150 cover charge and don't forget to tip your burka-wearing waitress. Is that $150 per couple? I'm coming with dov, he's paying ;D.
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Re: Personal recovery plan 26 Jan 2012 17:09 #131813

obormottel OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1440 Karma: 6	I'd like to remind you that an SA-approved couple is one man and one woman within the framework of marriage. Unless we define a man as the one who's paying...
	Baby steps. If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas! Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans. Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 26 Jan 2012 17:34 #131821

gibbor120 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Posts: 5251 Karma: 166	Do you take bad checks and cancelled credit cards?
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Re: Personal recovery plan 26 Jan 2012 17:45 #131823

TehillimZugger OFFLINE Platinum Boarder לבד הנשמה הטהורה Posts: 2446 Karma: 34	how much is it in shekels? also do you sponsor the airfare?
	?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him? Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 26 Jan 2012 19:39 #131834

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Chucky Cheese tokens?

Oh, and I'll need an extra-large parking spot. (Not for me, for my truck) ;D

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וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
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Re: Personal recovery plan 26 Jan 2012 19:40 #131835

gibbor120 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder NEVER EVER GIVE UP! Posts: 5251 Karma: 166	Yes, and how many possums to the dollar?
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Re: Personal recovery plan 29 Jan 2012 06:38 #131949

Yosef Hatzadik OFFLINE Platinum Boarder A GYE'er since 2010 Posts: 2986 Karma: 10	Am I overhearing some discussions about a GYE party?? For a party it is worth sticking around....
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Re: Personal recovery plan 04 Feb 2012 00:00 #132381

obormottel OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1440 Karma: 6	Yud Shvat 5772. 6 months clean today.
	Baby steps. If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas! Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans. Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 05 Feb 2012 03:46 #132396

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Gevaldigggg!!!

Here's to a lifetime of "One Day At A Time"s!!!

Lechaim!!!!

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Re: Personal recovery plan 05 Feb 2012 07:19 #132397

Dov OFFLINE Administrator Posts: 1960 Karma: 383	Mazel Tov!!
	"Off the 18-wheeler and fine on this tricycle!", "I do not particularly care exactly which "lav" suicide is. I'm not interested in it for other reasons...and you are probably the same." Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 05 Feb 2012 10:40 #132399

Blind Beggar OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Not a sexaholic, just trying to be good. Posts: 780 Karma: 12	Six months! Gevaldig!! Keep it up for the rest of your life one clean day at a time.
	The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars. If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look. I can guard my eyes. I want to guard my eyes. I do guard my eyes. Why do I say these four lines? Last Edit: by .

Re: Personal recovery plan 15 Jul 2012 20:10 #141601

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obormottel wrote on 03 Jul 2012 20:19:

WARNING: The following story is NOT part of children book series "If you give (a mouse a cookie etc)...", although it is loosely based on it, and it is therefore NOT suitable for children.
Reader discretion advised.

IF YOU GIVE ME TO LOOK AT A WOMAN

If you give me to look at a woman
I may not see everything I want to see at a first glance.
So I may ask to look again.

When I look again, I may think she is attractive and if I find her attractive, I'll want to sexualize her.

When I've sexualized her, I'll want a fantasy to go with it.
And after fantasizing for a while, I will have a build-up of sexual tension,
which I will want to releive.
So I will want to mastrubate.

Once I decide to mastrubate,
I will look for some porn to go with it.
So I will look for a computer with a fast internet connection.

When I start looking at porn, I may masturbate again and again, and keep looking at porn for hours.

After mastrubating many times, and watching porn for hours on end,
I will become tired and depressed,
and I will want someone to comfort me.

When I want someone to comfort me it better be a woman, but it cannot be my wife, 'cause she's real and she knows the real me.

So I'll look for a woman who may be holding the key to my salvation, and when I find her, chances are I may wanna look at her.

But if you give me look at a woman...

didn't want it to go to waste. At the same time, I shared a bunch of very personal info in the original thread, and may have come off boasting. So that had to be removed. Just a note to calm those who know what I shared: I share those numbers regularly in face-to-face meetings with safe people. WWW doesn't seem so safe, wouldn't you agree?

Baby steps.
If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas!

Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans.

Re: Personal recovery plan 17 Jul 2012 19:20 #141839

justkeepgoing OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 291 Karma: 2	Lol what do you mean? The internet is perfectly-safe!

Re: Personal recovery plan 06 Aug 2012 00:19 #142980

obormottel OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1440 Karma: 6	One year since coming to GYE (on Aug. 3, 2011) I have been sexually sober for 365 days. Thank you G-d, Sexaholics Anonymous, my sponsor, GYE, and my brothers-in-GYE. I never thought I can get to thirty days. And if you don't beleive me, just scroll up. Mottel
	Baby steps. If the road is pulling you down, it's a sign that you are going uphill, so just press harder on the gas! Have a great day - unless, of course, you made other plans.

Re: Personal recovery plan 06 Aug 2012 06:51 #142990

TehillimZugger OFFLINE Platinum Boarder לבד הנשמה הטהורה Posts: 2446 Karma: 34	MAZEL TOV!!!
	?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?