Why not open a thread discussing the content of the emails?
today's story about the chusid not being let in the house of the other chusid in a frosty night telling him that in his house he is the boss, is a great story and support how to deal with our struggle.
even its very very hot outside (inside):triumph:dont let him in, he might bang on the door, just ask your self who is boss...

What do you do if your heart is melting how can you leave some person in such a bad situation 

Or you do your TaPHSiC Geder, or you say thilim, but this "person" has to stay out, until desolved

Shmiras Ainayim" Chizuk E-Mail No. 1383
the story of today is a major chizuk for all of us, one of the צדיקים from before (I don't remember who) said, that in today’s time, when a fellow Yid has a big נסיון and he holds himself back not to look at inappropriate stuff, like porn or woman on the street, or he holds himself back from doing למעשה inappropriate things, at that moment he can ask Hashem whatever he wants and he will be heard, our עבודה is bigger than anything in the world, and Hashem wants we should continue that way
so no wonder he had such success with his son.

חזק ואמץ

I have done this many,many times,and still waiting.
How long till I see that I am heard?
Why just these past 2 days I asked after these times to just remove everything, I can't take it anymore where is $ ....

MayanHamisgaber wrote on 03 May 2017 18:59:

Perhaps God needs punctuatin' Markz.

1) אמונה ובטחון
2) it’s being heard, but not always you see it right away,
let me tell you a story I was personally involve.
a guy a financial controller was looking to change his job, so I tried to push him in to a company, the potentials looked phenomenal, a 30K increase salary, so he met with the potential employer twice, everything looked rosy, but somehow, another guy pushed himself in to that company and the first guy, whom I tried to help lost the opportunity.
the first guy was devastated, he told already his friends and family about his new job, but there was nothing I can help him.
After 3 months, the company where he was supposed to get this job has been raided by the feds, and this new controller got arrested, was part of an investigation company closed down, thousands of lawyer fees, the whole nine yards.
So basically, when the first guy lost the opportunity he didn’t know at all how good it was for him that he lost that opportunity, so that’s the point, you continue to pray, and the Yeshuah will come, but you won’t see it always.
And that’s what we ask Hashem הראנו ה' חסדך

Breaking Free Chizuk # 1664
The torah part, about כל הגדול-מחבירו, יצרו גדול-ממנו is an unbelievable pshat, i love it,

The מאור ושמש says it too last week, parshas Kdoshim, that רש"י says that this parshe was said בהקהל, when all the yidden were all together, so he asks, that all the מצוות were said בהקהל, there is no מצוה was said seperately to one jew or a seperately part of jews, so he answers that by kedosihm someone can think that the best way to be holy is when he is a loner, goes only by him self, so thats what he says, that in order to be קדושים, you must be בהקהל, you must be together with friends, so you can learn from each other how to be and sgay holy....

I once thought that I love being alone

I once hated the social scene

I once hated having to step up to the plate 

Then life happened

Now I like being alone sometimes

Now I can enjoy the social scene

Now I can enjoy stepping up to the plate

Now I love reaching out to friends and family

Now I understand I was stupid selfish 

Now I can enjoy(live) life

today's email story Shmiras Ainayim Chizuk List - #1389 is incredible, and interesting how this Blind individual has נסיונות without looking at porn etc. So basically, everyone has נסיונות, and even when you don’t look at inappropriate things, and when you fight off lust, or joining the 12 step program, you will still be struggling with lust, and even with the BEST filter, which this guy has, the נסיונות are there, and they are there to help us getting higher spirit.

in one word WOW!

and to this blind guy I will say, חזק ואמץ, and thanks loads for sharing, you are a big support for all of us, keep it up

Anyone noticed yet today's email (1391)?


I can't believe it. Lucky I met some great people before they cut us apart. 

Sign a petition against.I'll sign.

Shmiras Ainayim" Chizuk E-Mail (No. 1392)

What a great lecture, its so true, and meaningful, great idea how to manage our eyes on the street in the hot summer days.

i used to enjoy the seen on the street, i used to follow with my eye, every female biker, jogger etc. But now, when im clean, i really see it difficult, especially when im driving, when i cant take off my eyes from the road, but B"H im managing. 

Thank you Hashem, Thanks to all GYE chaverim, and a special thanks for my GYE partner.

Breaking Free Chizuk #1671 - Secrets to Happiness Revealed!
what a great lesson, The Missing Tile Syndrome so true...
and telling me that "TaPHSiC Works!" ? I know from my self, it does wonders...

Shmiras Ainayim Chizuk List - #1397

wow, this boy has some courage, reaching out to the right people, he knows that he has his problems, coming to the הכרה that he has a problem is a huge step forward, if I would get to that stage at his age, I would probably do much better today, but, I didn't, so congrats....
but one thing is bothering me, why did he had access to pornography at the age of 14!!!!
should he have a full recovery.... hope he gets his full support, so he can recover fully..