eerie wrote on 01 Jul 2025 17:33:
trueme wrote on 01 Jul 2025 02:56:
What's the goal of this poll?
I have heard from a few guys that the freedom they experienced, primarily in EY, the easy access to unfiltered internet it gave them access to, led them to fall deeper into the unhealthy behaviors. I have heard from some others that being in a place where there were many seminary girls wasn't good for them. I am trying to understand if these things are a general issue, or something that some people sometimes experienced.
Freedom for bochurim is such a terrible idea.
Warning: Spoiler!And don't get me started on the mega-"yeshivos" prevalent today which are basically just a beis medrash and a dining room but have nothing to do with chinuch. As one of my friends who was in the Mir once pointed out, the difference between going to Rav Asher's shuir and calling in to hear the recording, is that when you listen to the recording you can get a seat in a beis medrash.
My impression was that my friends in high school who went to e"y for first year beis medrash were looking basically for freedom - "Town" was mentioned a lot more than whoever the first year rebbi is in Tomo. The better guys stayed in America. So perhaps in your survey take into account that first year bochurim and older bochurim are two different categories.