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Re: A Modest Proposal 27 Sep 2024 17:05 #422547

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First vaad is beginning next week, iy"h!

It's not too late to sign up - just hit that link in my signature. We've got some amazing people for the first group, and we're hoping for some good times all around. 

Hope you'll come along for the ride

Re: A Modest Proposal 09 Oct 2024 21:18 #423046

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If anyone thinks they may be available to lead a vaad please email GYE.Vaad.Project at gmail.com or PM me.

You don't need to have it all figured out to lead a vaad. Just some amount of clean time and the willingness to do it!

It's a fantastic way to give back to the community. 

Re: A Modest Proposal 26 Nov 2024 22:12 #425866

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jollylemur95 wrote on 26 Nov 2024 19:47:
I strongly recommend the vaad, if you are not ready to make a personal call. When I started out I was not willing to call but the vaad felt safer because it was not one on one, more people who are in the same boat. Once I saw how understanding they were, that gave me the courage to make that phone call. But if you can, go all the way. You will not regret it! I have gotten , empathy, love, and the sledgehammer from HHM.   As stated he usually reserves the hammer only for those who are mistreating their wives. Go for it. We are rooting for you!!!


Now there's a haskama!

From a very chashuve yid too (some would say talmid chacham, but I think he's a tzadik).

Hit that link and join a vaad. I dare you. 

Re: A Modest Proposal 28 Nov 2024 00:47 #425975

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I just saw this post now.
I am not sure if my haskama is worth much but as you quoted me, I do strongly believe the Vaad is Fantastic!

I think I told you privately but I will state it publicly as well.
IF I am ever zoche to kick this (hopefully I will) The vaad will be a huge reason why.

Thank you to Proud Yungeman and Shem!

Re: A Modest Proposal 28 Nov 2024 19:46 #426045

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I'm new to this site and to this chat, but this sounds like a really wonderful idea. I've heard about GYE for years, and I'm finding the resources a little overwhelming...where to start when there's so much. The thought of a weekly conference call to touch base sounds great.

Re: A Modest Proposal 28 Nov 2024 19:54 #426049

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Welcome!
You will find the greatest group of Tzadikim here!
You will not regret it!

Go up 2 posts on the screen to find the link to join the VAAD, under the user name chosemyshem.
I have spoken with him many times. He is a true tzadik and one of the nicest people you will ever speak with.

Re: A Modest Proposal 18 Dec 2024 00:54 #427269

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New Vaad just started...

Never too late to join, now with two options...
Feel free to reach out and say hi!
proudyungerman@gmail.com
406-219-8398

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