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Re: G's 09 May 2017 20:59 #312703

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3.Sleeping thru shiur
4.Getting mad at the Rosh Ha Yeshivah

Sounds like he should be mad at you.
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Re: G's 09 May 2017 21:02 #312707

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Maybe he is and that is why I cannot "catch" him to talk a little 

OH WELL

(but why does he not tell me?????)
very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: G's 09 May 2017 21:23 #312715

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 09 May 2017 21:02:
Maybe he is and that is why I cannot "catch" him to talk a little 

OH WELL

(but why does he not tell me?????)

He tried, but you were sleeping.
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Re: G's 09 May 2017 21:27 #312717

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MayanHamisgaber wrote on 09 May 2017 21:02:
Maybe he is and that is why I cannot "catch" him to talk a little 

OH WELL

(but why does he not tell me?????)

I had to tell the following to someone close to me recently:
There are mitzvos of Kibbud and Mora Av V'Eim. There is no mitzvah of Kibbud Ben U'Bas.
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Re: G's 09 May 2017 21:27 #312718

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Ther be other times in the day that I no b slee    ​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: G's 09 May 2017 21:32 #312720

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Bigmoish wrote on 09 May 2017 21:27:

MayanHamisgaber wrote on 09 May 2017 21:02:
Maybe he is and that is why I cannot "catch" him to talk a little 

OH WELL

(but why does he not tell me?????)

I had to tell the following to someone close to me recently:
There are mitzvos of Kibbud and Mora Av V'Eim. There is no mitzvah of Kibbud Ben U'Bas.

I have a lot to say about this but let us just leave it for now (and not on this thread for sure)
very important thread: guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21" option="guardyoureyes.com/forum/20-Important-Threads/19180-FEEL-THE-HUGS%21%21%21">FEEL THE HUGS!!!

Re: G's 10 May 2017 03:09 #312760

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Gratitude:
1. for wife's moods
2. for wife's commitment
3. for health
4. for my job
5. for fatherhood

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
1. givin' partner space and respect
2. maintainin' diet
3. not allowin' fellow to get under my skin
4. Mincha goin'

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1. Turn the other way
2. Compassion when faced with challenge
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Re: G's 17 May 2017 17:39 #313451

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Gratitude:
1. for health
2. for today's bank status
3. for health
4. for sobriety
5. for the majority

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
1. stayin' above the fray
2. Three days in a row wakin' up early

Glitch
Searchin' and watchin' one clip for twenty seconds

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
Take prayers outta wallet and actually say 'em
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Re: G's 17 May 2017 18:29 #313456

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cordnoy wrote on 17 May 2017 17:39:
Gratitude:
1. for health
2. for today's bank status
3. for health
4. for sobriety
5. for the majority

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
1. stayin' above the fray
2. Three days in a row wakin' up early

Glitch
Searchin' and watchin' one clip for twenty seconds

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
Take prayers outta wallet and actually say 'em

Just pointing out, you wrote twice by gratitude "For Health". Does that you mean you are doubly grateful?
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Re: G's 17 May 2017 18:59 #313461

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Yes.
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Re: G's 26 Sep 2017 12:03 #320595

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Gratitude:
1. for health
2. for boss' attitude
3. for work satisfaction
4. for sobriety
5. for kids growth

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
1. Stayin' calm in stressful times
2. Sayin' the prayers (4 & 6)
3. Keepin' quiet on Shabbos

Glitch
Watchin' 
Selichos

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
Stayin' away from wife
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Re: G's 29 Jul 2018 14:19 #334052

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Techiyas hameisim, cuz I need it badly.

Gratitude:
1. for health in family
2. for two people's generosity
3. for daughter's work progress
4. for sobriety
5. for work success

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
1. For workin' on bitachon in stressful situations
2. Learnin' yesterday

Glitch
Fantasizin' slightly
Davanin'

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
1. Will not look (again) at backsides
2. Will think before recitin' three blessin's
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Re: G's 21 Aug 2018 12:43 #334875

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Gratitude:
1. for normalcy in family
2. for bank account
3. for zman startin' again
4. for the serene times
5. for bein' busy

Good stuff (victories) (this should be overcomin' specific challenges):
1. Stayin' afloat durin' turbulent bedroom stuff
2. Davanin' from a siddur

Glitch
Maariv
Starin'

Goals (usually specific tasks; items that we can look back on and see that we've actually made progress; something actionable):
1. Will not take second look the next time (not forever, not the entire day, just the next time) this nisayon appears (I'm kinda disgusted with myself, when I think about it, that there is a good probability that I will take this stinkin' habit of mine to the grave, and that that day is comin' closer).
2. Will think before recitin' three blessin's (this worked for a day; damn, it hurts seein' that I couldn't maintain somethin' good for even a couple of days).
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Re: G's 21 Aug 2018 21:22 #334881

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So I heard this as just VeGs so here goes...

Victories
1)Took a test and didn't beat myself up for doing just okay
2)Had a productive day
3)Went for a run last night
4)Edited out the lack of positivity in one of the victories before #4

Gratitude
1)Thank you Hashem that I got a great new chavrusa
2)...for the text this morning that my StudyPartner (Less afiliated) was excited to study tonight
3)...for bringing me back to GYE
4) ...for 8 days clean going on 90!

Re: G's 21 Aug 2018 22:56 #334885

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Realestatemogul wrote on 21 Aug 2018 21:22:
So I heard this as just VeGs so here goes...

Victories
1)Took a test and didn't beat myself up for doing just okay
2)Had a productive day
3)Went for a run last night
4)Edited out the lack of positivity in one of the victories before #4

Gratitude
1)Thank you Hashem that I got a great new chavrusa
2)...for the text this morning that my StudyPartner (Less afiliated) was excited to study tonight
3)...for bringing me back to GYE
4) ...for 8 days clean going on 90!

Great stuff!

This thread is for everyoneI.
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