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Re: Back on the Site 04 Dec 2014 22:48 #244626

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WOOHOO!! Each and every small battle you encountered over those few days and you won is a major accomplishment!!

Re: Back on the Site 04 Dec 2014 22:52 #244627

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לפום צערא אגרא
...וְאִם גַּם אֶתְאַמֵּץ בְּעֵצוֹת וְתַחְבֻּלוֹת וְכָל יוֹשְׁבֵי תֵבֵל יַעַמְדוּ לִימִינִי לְהוֹשִׁיעֵנִי וְלִתְמֹךְ נַפְשִׁי, מִבַּלְעֲדֵי עֻזְּךָ וְעֶזְרָתְךָ אֵין עֶזְרָה וִישׁוּעָה...‬

מתוך תפילה נפלאה שחיבר הרה"ק רבי מאיר מאפטא זצוק"ל, בעל מחבר ספר "אור לשמים", ונדפסה בתחילת ספרו.

Re: Back on the Site 04 Dec 2014 23:08 #244629

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dear shomer bro
i fully understand your situation
and gibbors & cordony's reply are gr8
i struggled with similar situations
and the only way forward was being on guard 24/7/365
not letting any bad stuff, or even old fantasies, etc... enter my mind
because a little thought brings a desire, which wakes up a sleeping cell, and then you are sold
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: Back on the Site 04 Dec 2014 23:09 #244630

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maybe its a gr8 reminder using the slogan
"BOG 24/7/365"
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: Back on the Site 05 Dec 2014 03:09 #244666

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Thanks guys for your chizuk.

I actually woke up today from a nap grabbed my phone and used the chase app to access some stuff. It shut off a couple times but I was persistent

I deleted the app

now back to chatting with gye friends

Re: Back on the Site 05 Dec 2014 03:43 #244671

Shmeichel wrote:
maybe its a gr8 reminder using the slogan
"BOG 24/7/365"


...and beware of leap years.

Web Chaver Coupon? 08 Dec 2014 00:40 #244768

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I am about to install Web Chaver - does anyone know of a "coupon" (payment) for the site? Thx.

Re: Strides 08 Dec 2014 06:52 #244805

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a) Installed WebChaver complete with 2 chaverim as well as an additional filter

b) Talked to my friend for a while about my issues.

c) Continue to ask Hashem for chizuk.

Strides.

Re: Strides 08 Dec 2014 07:26 #244806

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You rock! Such a big accomplishment, you should be so proud of yourself!

Re: Strides 08 Dec 2014 15:01 #244818

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strugglingguy wrote:
a) Installed WebChaver complete with 2 chaverim as well as an additional filter

b) Talked to my friend for a while about my issues.

c) Continue to ask Hashem for chizuk.

Strides.


Great stuff!
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Re: Strides 09 Dec 2014 07:29 #244891

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Great to hear! Thank you for the chizuk!
Much Hatzlacha!

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Re: Strides 11 Dec 2014 06:03 #245017

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my internet has been slower with web chaver. anyone else experience that?

i'm gonna try to call them.

Re: Strides 18 Dec 2014 23:54 #245401

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Hi Everyone

Baruch Hashem been clean a few days.

Happy Chanukah!

SG

Re: Strides 19 Dec 2014 01:52 #245415

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hey what a great news!
i was a kind of a bit down
and you just cheered me up
thanks
after all some honest people do do a days work
when going forward gets tough, its merely a sign that you are going uphill, just give more gas
put your sobriety first; before your wife, before your kids, before your avodas HaTorah (except for the 3 that are יעבור ואל יהרג) Without sobriety you won't have any of those things!

Re: Strides 23 Dec 2014 02:05 #245522

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Looked at some questionable stuff on the tablet ("How to...") moved it away ... trying to install webchaver on it also... going to mincha.
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