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Re: some chizzuk for my bros 12 Jul 2013 02:30 #211962

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I would love to discuss with you. Let me know how.

Re: some chizzuk for my bros 12 Jul 2013 02:38 #211964

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Re: some chizzuk for my bros 12 Jul 2013 03:03 #211968

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I don't see what there is to discuss. Learn through even ho'ezer 23. If you still think it's just a minhag then I'm afraid you are on the wrong forum.

Re: some chizzuk for my bros 12 Jul 2013 03:12 #211972

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Re: some chizzuk for my bros 12 Jul 2013 03:24 #211977

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That was a very ignorant last post.

Re: some chizzuk for my bros 12 Jul 2013 03:36 #211978

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The halocho is crystal clear on the issues you have raised. I can now see why discussing these technical questions on an open forum is a bad idea. Trust me, these are questions that I have asked and received answers, but it's not for me to relay them to you. If you're sincere, you should politely ask your Rav.

To your original point: there is no doubt that watching porn and masturbating are ossur, as above. Hashem does not ask us of us anything that is impossible. Difficult, but not impossible.And He will help you if you let Him.

I'm still unclear where the chizzuk is in all this.

Re: some chizzuk for my bros 15 Jul 2013 16:56 #212187

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For the record, it is actually a machloikes rishoinim weather hoitzoas zera levatolo is ossur mideoireisa or miderabonon. Toisfes says it is miderabonon.

It was a shock for me to learn this.

However, this discussion is less relevant for me nowadays. The point is that when i act out my life becomes extremely unmanageable. I am looking to get recovery from an addiction.

Re: some chizzuk for my bros 15 Jul 2013 17:14 #212193

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Re: some chizzuk for my bros 15 Jul 2013 21:15 #212231

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watching porn is definitely ossur mid'orayso though. ''ve'lo sosuru acharei levavchem ve'acharei eineichem''

Re: some chizzuk for my bros 15 Jul 2013 21:43 #212238

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