Don't fall on a whim!
Don't fall on a whim. I'll say it again: Don't fall on a whim. Falling is too painful to do just like that. If a person c"v feels like he must fall, he should at least think it through. Write down 10 reasons you don't want to fall. Then write down 10 reasons you do want to fall (if you can come up with that many). Then, take the matter "under advisement", and don't issue a decision before tomorrow.
Someone posted in response on the Forum:
Thank you kedusha. I just wanted you to know that your post helped me today. It made me push it off and think it through a bit. Thank you!