The Library

Change is a process, not an event.

Let go of old ideas.

Count your blessings.

When all else fails, follow directions.

Dov responds to someone who claims that we need to change our attitude and realize that looking is also part of the addiction: I do not argue with this idea, but I know of not one addict who ever permanently "stopped himself" from using his/her drug because of any reason ...

Humility is our acceptance of ourselves.

Trying to pray is praying.

Be as enthusiastic about recovery as you were about your acting-out.

A journey of a 1,000 miles begins with the first step.

Willpower = our willingness to use a Higher Power.

Sorrow is looking back, worry is looking around.

The first step in overcoming mistakes is to admit them.

Faith is spelled a-c-t-i-o-n.

Spirituality is the ability to get our minds off ourselves.

We can be positive that our acting-out was negative.

Fear is the darkroom where our negatives are developed.

Easy does it, but DO it.

ZD writes: My life as a lust addict: I spent three hours on my computer typing every obscenity in just "to see" if I can bypass the filter. I actually was able to bypass it in the end and access porn. It was as if I needed to know that I could access it. At that point I j...