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Day 10: Maintain a Balanced Approach: Treat Women with Respect

GYE Corp. Tuesday, 22 May 2012
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Day 10

Steve's Journal...

I have to admit that I was a little confused. I was invited to Sheva Brachot at the Cohen's house tonight, and I wasn't sure of "Torah etiquette." Should I thank the hostess or is it better not to look at her or say anything?

So I called my number one authority, Dave. "I've been invited too," he answered. "Meet me at 7:30 in front of the Cohens' house."

When we met, Dave told me it's all a question of balance. After all, the Torah wants you to be a "mensch." "Just follow me," he instructed, "and do what I do."

We went inside. Mrs. Cohen was at the door and Dave cordially greeted her. I thanked her for inviting me and followed him to the table. It was a great Sheva Brachot. The food was magnificent, the speeches were short, and the newlyweds looked really happy.

When the kallah's friends came in, Dave gave me a little under-the-table kick and pointedly looked down at his plate. He didn't have to: I was already studying the silverware.

When it was over, Dave and I thanked Mrs. Cohen for the terrific meal she had served. She really glowed. Putting together a Sheva Brachot like that takes a lot of hard work, and I think she was glad that we appreciated it.

 

These e-mails are excerpts taken from the book "Windows of the Soul" by Rabbi Zvi Miller of the Salant Foundation.

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