Baruch Hashem I'm in a better mindset today. Still have a lot to do in a short amount of time.

One Day At A Time!!

The אוה”ח comments on the פסוק in פרשת בלק

"קל מוציאם ממצרים"

The פסוק uses the word “מוציאם“ (present tense) rather than “הוציאם“ (past tense).

Explains the אוה”ח that this hints to the words of חז”ל;

"בכל דור ודור חייב אדם לראות את עצמו כאילו הוא יצא ממצרים"

יציאת מצרים was not just a once off event. Rather, each year, we can experience our own יציאת מצרים again. קל מוציאם ממצרים, Hashem didn’t just take us out, He takes us out. This year, we will once again have the opportunity to break free from the ערות הארץ and really reach a true חירות עולם.

Welcome to the warmest family in the world!

Here you will find true care, concern, and warmth.
Here you will learn that you CAN break free!

Have you tried any of these tools?
There is the F2F Program, the Vaad Program (click here for an explanation of what the vaad is), and the book The Battle of the Generation - many have found this very helpful in reframin' the struggle, as you mentioned.
Posting is a great way to connect, learn, and grow also. 
(The Hall of Fame Thread is a great compilation of some the great threads on GYE.)

There is also an extremely powerful tool of accountability, friends, and mentors, as has been mentioned, that has helped hundreds - myself included.
HHM - Hashem Help Me - is the mentor-in-chief around here. He's reachable at michelgelner@gmail.com.
Some of the other great guys here are Eerie - 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com, Muttel - muttel15@gmail.com,   Reb Akiva - mevakesh247@gmail.com iwantlife - iwantlifegye@proton.me minhamayim - minhamayim1@gmail.com amevakesh - amevakesh23@gmail.com

Keep postin', you'll see, the oilam is here for you.

Lookin' forward to seeing great things from you!
And don't forget, as always, KOMT!!

cleanmendy wrote on 01 Apr 2025 14:57:

I was suggesting asking a different friend to help hold you accountable specifically for this. 
I know that it would do me good to read TBOTG every night, but I was having a hard time getting it done. I found a friend who was also tryin' to read it, and we now hold each other accountable. 
I know for myself that while posting here is powerful, this works even better.

If you like music / singing, you can check out some artists and learn the songs you enjoy (should be able to find a translation too). Are there any Shabbos observant Jews/communities close enough to your city to spend a Shabbos there?

yerushalmikugel wrote on 01 Apr 2025 15:02:

See my pm

yerushalmikugel wrote on 01 Apr 2025 14:59:

You have the mekomos hakedoshim, many chashuve yeshivas, gedolim, Toldos Aron. Yerushalyim is saturated with kolel yungeleit and yeshiva bachurim. And you could also go to zfas and bnai brak. Where else do you have a shiur like that of R Asher Arieli or R Avram Yehoshua

So how we gonna celebrate a week??

I'm expecting a massive party

I once posted a thought from the Tanya (I think he said it). Our connection with Hashem is like a rope, Sometimes it may rip, but we can retie it, and when we do the two sides become closer together.
We see that when guys fall and get back up they're much stronger, and our relationship with Hashem and everyone else can slowly but surely repair.

Yes. Thank you...

I now speak to a mentor regularly and it has been a huge help! more like a crane...

yeshivabachur111 wrote on 01 Apr 2025 13:05:

In what ways is it easier in ey?

proudyungerman wrote on 31 Mar 2025 22:19:


I don't feel like telling him something so minor, again I'm not talking about inappropriate browsing.
Id rather just post on here.

simchastorah wrote on 28 Mar 2025 06:48:

You are an inspiration and thnx for all the torah you share 

dove63 wrote on 01 Apr 2025 13:53:

Try carlebach or mbd 

I think a moderators role should be to adjudicate whether flagged posts and users violate the forum rules. If that’s the job description you’ll find many people who are qualified. If it’s basically a mashgiach temidi role, it’ll be hard to find candidates 

BenHashemBH wrote on 01 Apr 2025 02:50:

I have the Koren Shalem sidur which has a lot of lyrics but I don't know the intonation.