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Re: Zemmy's story 22 Mar 2012 19:32 #135119

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Is that shorthand for Chocolate Lentils?

What if you spell it "cholint"?
!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל


"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant


My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends
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Re: Zemmy's story 22 Mar 2012 19:36 #135120

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You'll stay a lot thinner spelling cholint than eating it .  Especially if you become so engrossed in debating what the correct spelling ought to be, that you forget to eat lunch .
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Re: Zemmy's story 22 Mar 2012 21:10 #135135

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ever saw a giraffe on a cholint-spelling diet?
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Zemmy's story 23 Mar 2012 16:19 #135160

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cholent
Ceneinne Horra Oyf Lannge Ehrvarttete Naches Tootoo
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Re: Zemmy's story 23 Mar 2012 17:19 #135168

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Chmeichel
Has
Osome
Language
Interpretation
Never-seen-before
Talent
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Zemmy's story 29 Mar 2012 20:19 #135346

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Shteeble wrote on 22 Mar 2012 17:50:

food for thought:
koecadlsww

i asked Harav Shteeble shlita what the depth of his esoteric epistle was and he kindly enlightened me:
keep on eating cholint (or cholent) and drinking lemonade-spiked woodford

in other news, i get a mazel tov, i made a siyum on a box of hamantashen today. my co-workers helped me, as well as guests and various delivery people. certain GYE-members were invited to partake but declined to come to the feast. iy'h by you oif simchas.


in other other news, reading this article
www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?topic=4565.msg135258#msg135258
brought home to me a point that i often forget. the primary tool for relating to the wife is under my nose. talking and sharing feelings and experiences. not doing you-know-what. sharing how i feel, what i fear, what i am worried about, what i appreciate. even if it makes me vulnerable or paints me in a less-than-flattering light. (of course, common sense needs to used, and if you just ran over some little old lady crossing the street, besides for the obvious chizuk in lo sirtzach you need, it might not be prudent to share that with the wife just yet).

in more other news, i installed accountability software today. (i have filters installed for years but never had accountability software [webchaver]). i had posted about doing so a while ago but the company did not respond and i did not pursue it, but today things worked out and now my every move is being watched. yishtabach shmo!
thank you UAJ for your kind help

here is a really beautiful email i got today:

1] Prayer is not a "spare wheel" that you pull out when in trouble, but it is a "steering wheel" that directs the right path throughout.
2] So why a Car's WINDSHIELD is so large and the Rear view Mirror is so small? Because our PAST is not as important as our FUTURE. So, Look Ahead and Move on.
3] Friendship is like a BOOK. It takes few seconds to burn, but it takes years to write.
4] All things in life are temporary. If going well, enjoy it, they will not last forever. If going wrong, don't worry, they can't last long either.
5] Old Friends are Gold! New Friends are Diamond!  If you get a Diamond, don't forget the Gold! Because to hold a Diamond, you always need a Base of Gold!
6] Often when we lose hope and think this is the end, G-D smiles from above and says, "Relax, sweetheart, it's just a bend, not the end!
7] When G-D solves your problems, you have faith in HIS abilities; when G-D doesn't solve your problems HE has faith in your abilities.
8] A blind person once asked: "Can there be anything worse than losing eye sight?" The answer is: "Yes, losing your vision!"
9] When you pray for others, G-d listens to you and blesses them, and sometimes, when you are safe and happy, remember that someone has prayed for you.
10] WORRYING does not take away tomorrow's TROUBLES, it takes away today's PEACE.
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Zemmy's story 03 Apr 2012 18:13 #135501

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ותרם כראם קרני בלתי בשמן רענן

The Ribono Shel Olam was so kind to me and lifted me up from the mud of porn for 2 years.
Not only that, He gave me a new appreciation of yiddishkeit, a new relationship with Him, a new relationship with myself, and many new friends and acquaintances who are a source of chizuk, camaraderie and life-lessons.
Like all the other bounty in my life i do not deserve any of it. It is pure chessed. The least i can do is thank Him.
Thank you Hashem!
thank you to Guard, what a gevaldiger zchus you have, megalgelim zchus al yedai zakai, ויה"ר שחפץ ה' בידך יצליח להרבות חיילים לתורה ולטהרה
thank you to all the holy members of GYE חדשים וישנים

Please Hashem guide me along the path, to let go of my own plan and accept Your plan, patiently and with hope, love and joy.
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Zemmy's story 03 Apr 2012 20:24 #135507

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Mazal Tov! Glad to be trucking along with you!
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Re: Zemmy's story 04 Apr 2012 01:56 #135519

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mazel tov
and mazel tov to the siyum
iy"h by us all oif simchos [without having to travel to the bronx  ;) ]
?דער באשעפער לאווט מיך אייביג. וויפיל לאוו איך עהם
My Creator loves me at all times. How great is my love for him?
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Re: Zemmy's story 05 Apr 2012 16:48 #135578

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thank you (for various reasons...)
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Zemmy's story 05 Apr 2012 16:52 #135579

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Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Zemmy's story 05 Apr 2012 16:54 #135580

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oh, and this is for haman's yartzeit
www.guardyoureyes.org/forum/index.php?topic=3513.0
Sometimes life is like tuna with not enough mayonaise
~Inna beshem ZS

Give, Forgive
~Cordnoy

The reason I'm acting as if I'm pregnant, is because I'm expecting. I should be accepting.
~TZ
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Re: Zemmy's story 06 Apr 2012 20:43 #135614

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Mazel Tov Zem.  It comes at the perfect time.  Hashem gives us Nissan zchus Zemmy's avodah.

all good brochos to you and your family.
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Re: Zemmy's story 17 Apr 2012 17:13 #135828

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hi

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hi Zem. Kol Hakavod.
Joel
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