Welcome! This page is were I'm going to be checking in to give myself some responsibility for the initial start of my 90 day journey and beyond. Feel free to comment and dish out advice "I'm all ears." looking forward to achieving 90 days with everyone!

My advice is to keep posting. And reaching out. 
Have you tried talking to HHM? I believe he may know a thing or two about this topic and has some good things to say (wearing a motorcycle helmet will not protect your from getting the sledgehammer though, I can't help you with that. He dishes it out in swingfuls) 

odyossefchai wrote on 21 Jan 2025 03:10:

Hey thanks for the reply! Not sure if that's my style but I'll definitely give it a shot.

just clocked in Day 8! so far its been a crazy day, i don't know if anyone else experiences this but if I have a nocturnal emission I'm usually signing up for hell for the rest of the day. which pretty much what happened but managed to urge-surf for a bit till I got out of the house. after that I was fine-sorta I came across a website with inappropriate pictures of women but thank g-d had the strength to block the website before I even considered to fall. 
peace out.

Wet dreams are very common, especially at the beginning of the 90 day journey. And I believe most of us here are familiar with its negative effects on your mood - its a big trigger!! So well done for staying clean!

We're in this fight together!

Keep strong,
UpAndDown

Your a chizuk to me, you didnt let that get you down, thanks!!
Keep going!

Thanks! I appreciate the support!

Day 9 complete: quick question for the boys, what are some songs that you listen to that give you chizuk? for me it's definitely "silver lining by MT joy" 
or after a bad fall "hurt by johnny cash"

Hey, here’s a warm hand: welcome! 

i love “Hurt” by Johnny Cash. “And you can have it all, the whole pile of dirt…”. What a way to look back on life… wasn’t expecting that reference here!! 

Welcome! Congratulations on taking the courageous step to post. There’s a lot of wisdom here, in the threads, and a lot of experience. This journey is easier together with friends. Stick alone, get to know some of the folks, when you’re ready. It’s worth it. 


The  way is GYE. Hope lives here. 

Chaim Oigen 

thegrave wrote on 21 Jan 2025 04:59:

My dear brother!
Welcome to the warmest family in the world!

Here you will find true care, concern, and warmth.
Here you will learn that you CAN break free!
There are many tools here to help you in this fight.
There is the F2F Program, the Vaad Program (click here for an explanation of what the vaad is), and the book The Battle of the Generation - many have found this very helpful in reframing the struggle.


There is also an extremely powerful tool of accountability, friends, and mentors, as has been mentioned, that has helped hundreds - myself included.
HHM - Hashem Help Me - is the mentor-in-chief around here. He's reachable at michelgelner@gmail.com. If HHM isn't your flavor, maybe try some of the other great guys here like Eerie - 1gimpelovitz@gmail.com, Muttel - muttel15@gmail.com,   Reb Akiva - mevakesh247@gmail.com iwantlife - iwantlifegye@proton.me

Keep posting, you'll see, the oilam is here for you.

Looking forward to seeing great things from you!
And don't forget, as always, KOMT!!