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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 15 Jul 2025 05:18 #438925

Thank God I am still clean. I am happy to say I was able to - with Hashems help - turn down some temptations that came my way.

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 14 Aug 2025 03:17 #440311

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hey. how are things going. long time no hear.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 14 Aug 2025 15:21 #440347

Thank you @boardg for checking in.

Knana Hara things are going very good. I really wouldn't be where I am today without the GYE family.

I think I can fairly say I am not surviving I AM LIVING!!!!!!!!!!

Thank You Hashem!!!!

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Last Edit: 14 Aug 2025 15:21 by stopsurvivingstartliving.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 14 Aug 2025 16:14 #440352

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Thanks for the great update, we wait anxiously to hear from you!
This is my thread.
guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/428861-Im-gonna-do-it-this-time

My email is.
mendelclean1234@gmail.com

This is the link for the battle of the generation audiobook
tinyurl.com/BattleGenAudiobook

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 14 Aug 2025 18:12 #440368

I just want to report a win.

Something came up that wasn't the worse thing in the world. If I would have spent time and walked into the trap after some time it would have been really not good for me. Baruch Hashem with Hashem's help I was able to get out of it before it got bad.

This is the Yetzer Hara's tactic. If a guys doing good then he has to creep in with a not-so-not-kosher thing. This way you fall in. Slowly but surely you get sucked up and it develops into what the Y''H had in mind all along.

This was me over today and yesterday. I was thankfully able to put the courage together and stop it before it was too late.

Thank You Hashem!!!

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 20 Aug 2025 06:04 #440594

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stopsurvivingstartliving wrote on 14 Aug 2025 15:21:


I think I can fairly say I am not surviving I AM LIVING!!!!!!!!!!


I wish I could say the same for myself.
 The biggest reward for quitting lust...
is getting to live a lust-free life.

Thanks to gye, I turned my life around.
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!


Trying to get something out of p or m is like trying to find something in this spoiler
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!
or this one
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Re: Holy In Jerusalem 20 Aug 2025 22:51 #440622

tzaddikvikam13 wrote on 20 Aug 2025 06:04:

stopsurvivingstartliving wrote on 14 Aug 2025 15:21:


I think I can fairly say I am not surviving I AM LIVING!!!!!!!!!!



I wish I could say the same for myself.

Ask me a couple months ago I wouldn't have thought I would get here. Everything is possible. Thank you Hashem!

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 20 Aug 2025 23:02 #440624

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stopsurvivingstartliving wrote on 20 Aug 2025 22:51:
Ask me a couple months ago I wouldn't have thought I would get here.

Same here.
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!
 The biggest reward for quitting lust...
is getting to live a lust-free life.

Thanks to gye, I turned my life around.
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!


Trying to get something out of p or m is like trying to find something in this spoiler
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!
or this one
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 22 Aug 2025 01:28 #440668

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stopsurvivingstartliving wrote on 20 Aug 2025 22:51:

tzaddikvikam13 wrote on 20 Aug 2025 06:04:

stopsurvivingstartliving wrote on 14 Aug 2025 15:21:
I think I can fairly say I am not surviving I AM LIVING!!!!!!!!!!

I wish I could say the same for myself.

Ask me a couple months ago I wouldn't have thought I would get here. Everything is possible. Thank you Hashem!

@SSSL - I'm soooooo happy to hear that you're doing better. Sounds like you've reached some sort of breakthrough.
Will you be so kind as to share with us what helped you get to this stage? Did anything major change in your life? Different mindset? Better understanding of the YH?
We'd love to hear! There is so much we can learn from each other!
And it's also a good thing for yourself to analyse what gives you the energy to fight, in order to know what steps to take next and how to keep the determination going...
My favourite resources:
1. "זאת בריתי". hebrewbooks.org/56572 (PM me for a sharper version)
2. "שערי גדולה". hebrewbooks.org/48344
3.  guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation

My journey: Emunah struggles, Celebrating a fall, I'm fed up(main thread), I'm drowning, Tips for Shmiras Einayim.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 25 Aug 2025 21:41 #440819

@SSSL - I'm soooooo happy to hear that you're doing better. Sounds like you've reached some sort of breakthrough.
Will you be so kind as to share with us what helped you get to this stage? Did anything major change in your life? Different mindset? Better understanding of the YH?


I think a big part of the answer is in this post:
guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/417728-Holy-In-Jerusalem?limit=15&start=450#438663
Another big part was the fact that I am happier with my daily schedule, and I feel more fulfilling, both of these factors give me more cheshek to stay clean.

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 25 Aug 2025 21:46 #440820

Just chiming in, BH I am still doing good. No porn. No masturbation. Not perfect at all on the streets but not bad enough that it is worth making a big deal over.

And here's an interesting one: I would like to report a win,
:pinch: Warning: Spoiler!
From reading around on the forums I think it's fair to call it a win.

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Last Edit: 25 Aug 2025 21:47 by stopsurvivingstartliving.

Re: Holy In Jerusalem 29 Aug 2025 15:57 #441011

Baruch Hashem I am still clean.

I am so grateful to Hakadosh Baruch Hu for where he brought me to, to this day.

Happiness, Clarity, Cheshek to Live, Fulfillment, and the list goes on.

I know that this struggle lives with each and every one of us till the day we die. I therefore try not to let myself get convinced that I got past it. Doing that wouldn't be smart because it's not being honest with myself, and doing that would be putting my guard down. It will be one big atzas hayetzer.

I do feel stress creeping into my life and that would be another reason to be on top of the struggle and not let my guard down.

I hope to - with Hashems help - be able to continue fighting and staying clean from this monster.

Have a Good Shabbos.

Signing off from a very bright room,
I am LIVING.

SSSL's Story (Google Doc)​ [You will need to request permission, which I'm happy to give.]
Holy In Jerusalem (My Thread)

Feel free to say hi or send some chizuk over @ stopsurvivingstartliving2024@gmail.com.
My google voice number got shut down, so I won't be able to receive or send messages from there.

Last Edit: 29 Aug 2025 15:57 by stopsurvivingstartliving.
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