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TOPIC: Nothing to lose 17168 Views
Re: Nothing to lose - update 19 20 Feb 2024 06:55 #408883
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"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend.
"Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson But I guess you can learn from the insights other have attained through change. The can't, won't sustainably defeat the want. -Gye vaad (quoting TBOTG) Paltiel succeeded because his excitement was stronger than his desire. Which helped him attain mastery over himself. -TBOTG |
Re: Nothing to lose 20 Feb 2024 13:27 #408886
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Looking forward to get to know you better!
Email me @ yiftach1609@gmail.com or call/text 347-201-4989 (Google voice) My story is unfolding here "יפתח ה' לך את אוצרו הטוב" |
Re: Nothing to lose 20 Feb 2024 13:32 #408887
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"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend.
"Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson But I guess you can learn from the insights other have attained through change. The can't, won't sustainably defeat the want. -Gye vaad (quoting TBOTG) Paltiel succeeded because his excitement was stronger than his desire. Which helped him attain mastery over himself. -TBOTG |
Re: Nothing to lose 20 Feb 2024 15:11 #408891
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"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend.
"Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson But I guess you can learn from the insights other have attained through change. The can't, won't sustainably defeat the want. -Gye vaad (quoting TBOTG) Paltiel succeeded because his excitement was stronger than his desire. Which helped him attain mastery over himself. -TBOTG |
Re: Nothing to lose 20 Feb 2024 16:20 #408896
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Re: Nothing to lose 20 Feb 2024 19:24 #408915
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שבע יפול צדיק וקם wrote on 20 Feb 2024 16:20:
notezy wrote on 20 Feb 2024 15:11: I am scared by the fact that the only times I have seemed to have found success is when I take on somthing new and that freshness gives me hope and lasts for about a 20-30 day period before it gives way and I am back to struggling again and I worry that's happening here. Your username says it all. This is not easy. I have been struggling with pornography and masturbation for 20 years. You started off this thread with: I have struggled with this for many years I have tried different tools and I see what a differences it makes in my life when I am clean I might as well start. What difference does it make in your life when you are clean? Why do you want to be clean? Whatever it is, it sounds like it was worth it to you to try and join GYE. Please don't despair just because it is hard. It is hard, but not impossible. See the quote from General Grant in my signature below. 
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וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל "If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE." "Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome." - General Grant My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends |
Re: Nothing to lose 20 Feb 2024 21:53 #408924
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"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend.
"Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson But I guess you can learn from the insights other have attained through change. The can't, won't sustainably defeat the want. -Gye vaad (quoting TBOTG) Paltiel succeeded because his excitement was stronger than his desire. Which helped him attain mastery over himself. -TBOTG |
Re: Nothing to lose 21 Feb 2024 21:02 #408968
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"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend.
"Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson But I guess you can learn from the insights other have attained through change. The can't, won't sustainably defeat the want. -Gye vaad (quoting TBOTG) Paltiel succeeded because his excitement was stronger than his desire. Which helped him attain mastery over himself. -TBOTG |
Re: Nothing to lose - Update 20 22 Feb 2024 12:10 #408983
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"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend.
"Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson But I guess you can learn from the insights other have attained through change. The can't, won't sustainably defeat the want. -Gye vaad (quoting TBOTG) Paltiel succeeded because his excitement was stronger than his desire. Which helped him attain mastery over himself. -TBOTG |
Re: Nothing to lose - Update 21 25 Feb 2024 05:34 #409065
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"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend.
"Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson But I guess you can learn from the insights other have attained through change. The can't, won't sustainably defeat the want. -Gye vaad (quoting TBOTG) Paltiel succeeded because his excitement was stronger than his desire. Which helped him attain mastery over himself. -TBOTG |
Re: Nothing to lose 26 Feb 2024 01:23 #409090
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Re: Nothing to lose - Update 22 26 Feb 2024 18:40 #409144
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"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend.
"Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson But I guess you can learn from the insights other have attained through change. The can't, won't sustainably defeat the want. -Gye vaad (quoting TBOTG) Paltiel succeeded because his excitement was stronger than his desire. Which helped him attain mastery over himself. -TBOTG |
Re: Nothing to lose - Update 22 28 Feb 2024 21:56 #409298
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You can win the fight, but I'll have to live with the loser.
Any excuse you use for yourself, you must be willing to use for your wife. Not Always can I understand others, but I can always respect their wishes. You're human, it's okay. One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other. |
Re: Nothing to lose - Update 23 29 Feb 2024 17:14 #409346
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"Excuses are the tools of incompetence" -My Friends Friend.
"Change will lead to insight far more often than insight will lead to change" -Milton H. Erickson But I guess you can learn from the insights other have attained through change. The can't, won't sustainably defeat the want. -Gye vaad (quoting TBOTG) Paltiel succeeded because his excitement was stronger than his desire. Which helped him attain mastery over himself. -TBOTG |
Re: Nothing to lose 29 Feb 2024 17:53 #409351
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