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Re: looking good on my way 07 Nov 2023 19:20 #403401

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Welcome!
Glad to hear your already up to day 5, just coming on to gye and starting to count the days as well as using keeping busy to help with urges is a huge step in the right direction. Keep on posting and hopefully you will find some help and guidance on here from the amazing people in this community.
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Re: looking good on my way 07 Nov 2023 21:42 #403413

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The fear of the unknown is horrible. At the right time, the right person should speak with your wife.
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Re: looking good on my way 17 Nov 2023 05:04 #403772

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i fell yesterday
but i know why i was full of anxiety and when have this feeling i just look to fill it with something the question how to deal with it next time it happens 

had a thought yesterday while laying in bed when someone falls to floor its not that bad because he can't fall anymore. but when climbing a mountain if you fall you can fall more and more and can even be fatal, we will have to make sure to stop falling and go further. the same is with our journey even if we fall we can't just let it go because we can fall even lower and we can end up.... we just have to pick ourselves up and and go up again even if we can fall again we don't land and the bottom at least we stay afloat

Re: looking good on my way 17 Nov 2023 11:50 #403778

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So what is your plan next time anxiety hits? Exercise? Calling a friend? Mindfulness? Something else?
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Re: looking good on my way 17 Nov 2023 19:47 #403787

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thanks for the options
would try mindfulness

Re: looking good on my way 19 Nov 2023 02:08 #403796

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maybe try getting used to it now.... Very healthy
Nothing good grows in the dark. 

Re: looking good on my way 19 Nov 2023 04:55 #403800

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bright wrote on 19 Nov 2023 02:08:
maybe try getting used to it now.... Very healthy

please explain used to what?
mindfullnes?

Re: looking good on my way 19 Nov 2023 14:40 #403807

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yep.
Nothing good grows in the dark. 
Last Edit: 19 Nov 2023 14:41 by bright.

Re: looking good on my way 19 Nov 2023 23:31 #403829

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bright wrote on 19 Nov 2023 14:40:
yep.

i do mindfullness but when a nisoyon arrives have to remember  to use it

Re: looking good on my way 20 Nov 2023 01:27 #403835

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I would try honing your skill at urge surfing. Its related and has really helped many of us.
Nothing good grows in the dark. 
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