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Starting again (But with hope) 20 Oct 2022 17:43 #386590

  • hopefulposek
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Hi everyone,
I started GYE about a month ago, was very excited about using the F2F tool to reach my goals (freedom from P and M), things started out well, I was keeping up with the program, made a plan and hade started my 90 days count.
Then over succos I started having a lot of urges everyday, I couldn't pinpoint the cues which were triggering it and I was getting worn down with constantly using the tools I had only recently learned about.
Then just shy of 30 days I had a fall. 
Now I'm feeling down, but planning on trying to move forward start again and learn from the situation.
I'm trying to take some chizuk from it, because besides the one year streak I had after getting married this has been the longest clean streak I've ever had since starting with P and M.
"Greatness is forged in battle" - Reb Yerucham Levovitz
My Journey - https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/399197-On-the-way-Again

Re: Starting again (But with hope) 21 Oct 2022 00:49 #386595

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It's a journey my friend, it takes time to get better at it, good for you for getting back up. 
As I recently saw on one of the oldies signature:
It cant be easy, then it would not be a GYE, But it also cant be impossible then it wouldn't be GYE either....

Re: Starting again (But with hope) 21 Oct 2022 18:42 #386629

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You got this baby. we all believe in you hear. Lets go lets go lets go go go go go go go go go go go go go go gooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!!!!! never give up my man
I'm sick of the Un-scientific approach of today's medical and social environment. 
we will never heal and become a better society unless we realize that all people are addicts. Any thing we do that we aren't interested in is "addiction" and medicine doesn't fix addictions. 

Pain causes addiction and medicine cant fix pain. 

Unless we heal our pain, and become truama conscious so as not to cause others pain, we will never be living in a functioning human society.
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