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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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Re: Connecting the days 25 Jul 2022 23:37 #383868

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doingtshuva wrote on 25 Jul 2022 23:02:

Your doing great and keep it up.
Just have in mind and prepare yourself a new goal.
Reaching 90 alone doesn't solve your addiction.
Once we reach 90 the anderline starts to fade.

Good luck and don't forget to celebrate. you deserve it!!

Thank you!
Yeah, I'm kinda apprehensive of what the coming days/weeks will bring. (The drag of Monday morning...)

Gotta stay vigilant.

We get only one chance at life.
This is not a rehearsal; it's the real thing.

Father, help me live sober Today.

Re: Connecting the days 25 Jul 2022 23:38 #383869

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Kavey wrote on 25 Jul 2022 20:03:

connected wrote on 25 Jul 2022 19:54:

89 days
The furthest I've ever made it (I look forward to writing this line every day now...)

Here's a line that came to me from a past life as I'm standing just a wee few hours away from 90 days.

You know that feeling you get when you're standing in a high place... sudden urge to jump?... I don't have it.

Yeah, neither do I.
Baruch Hashem for that.

Stay Connected

LOL I totally do...

Friendly advice, don't jump.

There's nothing meaningful down there. Only the longing to be where you're at now.

We get only one chance at life.
This is not a rehearsal; it's the real thing.

Father, help me live sober Today.

Re: Connecting the days 26 Jul 2022 03:36 #383882

no mask Current streak: 605 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 201 Karma: 12	Mazel Tov !!! On reaching 90 days May Hashem help that this should be a foundation to build further. It looks like this thread is going to be one of the successful ones, just seeing how you’re getting better and better. Hatzlacha !!!

Re: Connecting the days 26 Jul 2022 13:53 #383914

kavey OFFLINE Expert Boarder Posts: 148 Karma: 8	Mazel Tov!

Re: Connecting the days 26 Jul 2022 13:54 #383915

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90 days
The furthest I've ever made it (I look forward to writing this line every day now...)

Did I just write "90"?!

I just started another thread where I posted some things that I learned in the last three months. I hope to update that thread as I gain more clarity on this subject while keeping this one as a journal of sorts.

https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/2-What-Works-for-Me/383913-Doing-the-impossible

Stay Connected

We get only one chance at life.
This is not a rehearsal; it's the real thing.

Father, help me live sober Today.

Re: Connecting the days 26 Jul 2022 14:18 #383919

lchaim tovim Current streak: 4 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 305 Karma: 22	I guess the allure of the wall of honor was just way to tempting LOL. Mazel Tov!! It's been very inspiring following your journey! How are you celebrating?
	Last Edit: 26 Jul 2022 14:19 by lchaim tovim.

Re: Connecting the days 26 Jul 2022 16:41 #383939

DeletedUser1281 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 448 Karma: 35	Lchaim Tovim wrote on 26 Jul 2022 14:18: I guess the allure of the wall of honor was just way to tempting LOL. Yeah, ultimately, it's all Shtus. Mazel Tov!! It's been very inspiring following your journey! BT! IY"H by you Oif Simchas! Thanks! How are you celebrating? This is a real conundrum, I'm out of ideas. Can anyone please weigh in and offer some advice? Thanks in advance!
	We get only one chance at life. This is not a rehearsal; it's the real thing. Father, help me live sober Today.

Re: Connecting the days 26 Jul 2022 17:24 #383948

lchaim tovim Current streak: 4 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 305 Karma: 22	Just don't forget about us on the other side of the wall...Keep posting

Re: Connecting the days 26 Jul 2022 17:44 #383950

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connected wrote on 26 Jul 2022 16:41:

Lchaim Tovim wrote on 26 Jul 2022 14:18:

I guess the allure of the wall of honor was just way to tempting LOL.

Yeah, ultimately, it's all Shtus.

Mazel Tov!! It's been very inspiring following your journey!

BT! IY"H by you Oif Simchas! Thanks!

How are you celebrating?

This is a real conundrum, I'm out of ideas. Can anyone please weigh in and offer some advice?
Thanks in advance!

There is only one right answer...Dougies!

Re: Connecting the days 27 Jul 2022 16:58 #384019

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91 days
The furthest I've ever made it (I look forward to writing this line every day now...)

Back to school, work, or wherever your drag is.

The celebration was kinda lacking.

The wife was feeling under the weather, so we ordered in.
(Oh, by the way, I shared my journey with her on Shabbos.)

I have a theory that restaurants have a special team that makes sure that every order should be missing some random items.

What good is a straw without a drink? I'll tell you; it's as good as a sandwich without the sauce/dressing.

Does anyone here have inside info on how restaurants choose what to omit?
Is it random?
Is it based on research?

Ubereats refunded half of the money, but I'm still hungry.
I didn't have these issues with the tuna sandwich.
מרבה נכסים, מרבה דאגה

Stay connected

We get only one chance at life.
This is not a rehearsal; it's the real thing.

Father, help me live sober Today.

Re: Connecting the days 27 Jul 2022 17:06 #384020

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connected wrote on 27 Jul 2022 16:58:

Straws, drinks, sandwiches?

This all we're going to get (Oh, by the way, I shared my journey with her on Shabbos.)?

Re: Connecting the days 27 Jul 2022 17:13 #384023

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What good is a straw without a drink? I'll tell you; it's as good as a sandwich without the sauce/dressing.

More like the sauce without the sandwich.

!אנא עבדא דקודשא בריך הוא

וּבְיָדְךָ כֹּחַ וּגְבוּרָה וּבְיָדְךָ לְגַדֵּל וּלְחַזֵּק לַכֹּל

"If it would be so easy there wouldn't be a GYE, but if it would be impossible there also wouldn't be a GYE."
"Sometimes a hard decision leads to an easier outcome."
- General Grant

My story: guardyoureyes.com/forum/19-Introduce-Yourself/111583-hello-my-friends

Last Edit: 27 Jul 2022 17:15 by gevura shebyesod.

Re: Connecting the days 27 Jul 2022 17:24 #384024

DeletedUser1281 OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 448 Karma: 35	Gevura Shebyesod wrote on 27 Jul 2022 17:13: More like the sauce without the sandwich. Oh, that would be epic! Warning: Spoiler! Drink it down like Newman's honey mustard I was just relaying the facts as they were...
	We get only one chance at life. This is not a rehearsal; it's the real thing. Father, help me live sober Today.

Re: Connecting the days 27 Jul 2022 17:42 #384026

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Lchaim Tovim wrote on 27 Jul 2022 17:06:

Straws, drinks, sandwiches?

This all we're going to get (Oh, by the way, I shared my journey with her on Shabbos.)?

Mumbling to himself:
Thought you'd be able to slip that in and get away with it, did you?

Yes BH. It was received pretty calmly. (Well, it was packaged and presented well too.)

What I said, how I said it, and why I felt the time was ripe is a topic best held in the safe confines of the BB forum.
Or not.

We get only one chance at life.
This is not a rehearsal; it's the real thing.

Father, help me live sober Today.

Re: Connecting the days 27 Jul 2022 17:49 #384027

lchaim tovim Current streak: 4 days OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 305 Karma: 22	Whenever your ready we'll be waiting...for that and the storyteller by Grant. Talking about the storyteller, I think it's time for another reminder...