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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!

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TOPIC: Think Good 16463 Views

Re: Think Good 27 Sep 2012 15:06 #145322

AlexEliezer OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1933 Karma: 55	Think wrote on 27 Sep 2012 10:24: Yet this is my fear after all the ruchnius with no distractions the lust suddenly comes out of nowhere! Yes. Lust will always come out of nowhere (cuz for us it really comes from within). You have tools to deal with these attacks. Use them and they work. The more you use them, the better they get.

Re: Think Good 27 Sep 2012 17:12 #145331

think good Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 222 Karma: 3	thanks for the advice Good Shabbos

Re: Think Good 30 Sep 2012 07:29 #145420

think good Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 222 Karma: 3	48 days

Re: Think Good 09 Oct 2012 07:18 #145685

think good Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 222 Karma: 3	57 days

Re: Think Good 10 Oct 2012 08:21 #145718

think good Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 222 Karma: 3	58 days

Re: Think Good 10 Oct 2012 19:48 #145780

AlexEliezer OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 1933 Karma: 55	Rock on, bro!

Re: Think Good 11 Oct 2012 08:09 #145841

think good Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 222 Karma: 3	59 days

Re: Think Good 12 Oct 2012 08:50 #145989

Blind Beggar OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Not a sexaholic, just trying to be good. Posts: 780 Karma: 12	Constant vigilance! (Easier to achieve when you're 60 days from shmutz).
	The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars. If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look. I can guard my eyes. I want to guard my eyes. I do guard my eyes. Why do I say these four lines?

Re: Think Good 14 Oct 2012 09:44 #146091

think good Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 222 Karma: 3	its now 62 days. Yes, definitely easier, but an addict is always an addict. That first trigger can start the fall a look a second look a lingering thought Thinking about one's wife fantasy dreaming about someone else's wife fantasy thoughts about any female fantasy thoughts about s*x

Re: Think Good 14 Oct 2012 09:47 #146092

Blind Beggar OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Not a sexaholic, just trying to be good. Posts: 780 Karma: 12	I agree. Constant vigilance! I cannot lust like a gentleman and she is not my problem.
	The Blind Beggar is a character in Rebbe Nachman's story of the Seven Beggars. If I view a woman as an object, I am powerless over lust, but I don't have to look. I can guard my eyes. I want to guard my eyes. I do guard my eyes. Why do I say these four lines?

Re: Think Good 18 Oct 2012 09:25 #146318

think good Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 222 Karma: 3	66 days

Re: Think Good 18 Oct 2012 19:10 #146344

jewish jew OFFLINE Platinum Boarder Posts: 359 Karma: 10	WOW after forty years lusting you have already 66 days. I am a sex and girl luster from a very young age and I see I am not even half you age just by the fact that you have been in trouble for 40 years and I can't get past the 20 mark I have past the 10 but never the twenty. So your 66 is some feat Keep up the great stuff JJ
	The opposite of addiction is not sobriety, it’s connection

Re: Think Good 21 Oct 2012 08:17 #146427

think good Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 222 Karma: 3	69 days

Re: Think Good 22 Oct 2012 08:01 #146448

think good Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 222 Karma: 3	70 days

Re: Think Good 23 Oct 2012 09:08 #146508

think good Current streak: 1 day OFFLINE Gold Boarder Posts: 222 Karma: 3	71 days I'm under a lot of personal pressure from family issues, which effects my moods, will try to find time to add some details later (bn)