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Scientific studies show that it takes 90 days to break an addictive pattern in the mind. Start your own Log of your journey to 90 days! Post here to update us on your status and to give each other chizuk to stay strong!
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Re: My Journey to 90 Days 25 Jan 2021 21:27 #361920

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YeshivaGuy wrote on 25 Jan 2021 14:52:
How u been?

126 days now! I guess a big thing with this is coming to terms with the fact that urges will recur no matter what, even if not as strongly as before.

Re: My Journey to 90 Days 02 Feb 2021 18:19 #362558

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I've been feeling very much on the precipice the entire day, and stuck alone in front of my computer until end of work. Hoping writing this here will help pull through.

Re: My Journey to 90 Days 22 Feb 2021 19:55 #363966

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How u been?

Re: My Journey to 90 Days 23 Feb 2021 13:24 #364038

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155 days! Honestly, it's been very uphill since my last post on this thread. I hope this trend continues!

Re: My Journey to 90 Days 13 Apr 2021 18:50 #366773

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How’s it going buddy?
I am a bochur with a passion for meaning and truth, searching to remain clean and live a holy and fulfilling life.

If you are reading this-you have a friend in me.
Feel free to PM me and I'll share my offline contact information, so we can call and text. I'd be honored if you'd trust me with your story and promise to support you in any way I possibly can.
I've been on GYE for over 7 years. "I may walk slow, but I never walk back" (-Abraham Lincoln?).
(For the background and meaning of my username- see Tanya chapter 15).

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Re: My Journey to 90 Days 16 Apr 2021 15:17 #366943

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OivedElokim wrote on 13 Apr 2021 18:50:
How’s it going buddy?

Thanks for checking in! I'm now at 207 days, and not showing any signs of slowing down. It's really amazing how different it is / changed I feel; I haven't even been truly tempted to since my last post on here.

Re: My Journey to 90 Days 19 Apr 2021 14:17 #367090

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Wow! That's amazing. Please keep in mind that at some point everyone gets challenged, and keep up all that you are doing: your safeguards and daily motivation, etc.
In the place where ba’alei teshuva stand, even pure tzaddikim who never sinned cannot stand. (Rabbi Avohu, Brachos 34b)

Great free resources:
My favorite book for breaking free: The Battle of the Generation https://guardyoureyes.com/ebooks/item/the-battle-of-the-generation. Change your attitude and change your life!

Rabbi Shafier's incredible lectures on breaking free: The Fight. Download here: https://theshmuz.com/series/the-fight/

If you're only ready to try something small, check out an easier way to do self-talk here:
https://guardyoureyes.com/forum/4-On-the-Way-to-90-Days/378128-Captain—Shtarkemotionals-Secret90Day-Challenge
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